We have been "seeing" each other for almost a year---(I have not been w/anyone else, he says the same). He recently moved 200 miles away to be near family. He had planned on living w/ a roomate (some lady he has been talking to on internet for 4yrs). Now she is not moving down here, so now he is asking(!) me to move down w/him. Since he moved he has called me daily, and had been much sweeter. Told me over the wkend that he is ready to "settle down", preferably with me. Why didn't he ask me to move with him earlier? Why ask me now after his "friend" changed her mind?
2007-03-06 10:54:07 · 12 answers · asked by somethingoranother 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Note: he moved after being laid off to live w/ family to save $ and help w/little brother. The other girl is from that area as was looking to move back, which is where the "roomate" thing came from
2007-03-07 01:41:39 · update #1
Make sure he loves you before you join him. I know that I would never leave my girlfriend behind even for my family. Why not ask him why he didn't ask you sooner? Best wishes.
2007-03-06 11:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he most likely wasn't being honest. Don't make a long term decision like this without actually having been in a REAL relationship first. My advice, pass the offer.
2007-03-06 18:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by Paul P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better use ur judgement/I dont think its genuine feelings but if u think about him this can work but now much water has flown under the bridge.Pl tell me yr nationality,i will better in answering. I always answer serious question n feel happy if ther are accepted. My email is palbal_23@yahoo.co.in
2007-03-06 19:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he actually use the word preferably??? oh hell no. that's like saying, "i'll settle down with anyone, but you'll do". looks like his plan A didn't work out. and he's moved to plan B. do you really want to be plan B for the rest of your life?
2007-03-06 18:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are not the only girl in his life. I would not move in with him. If he honestly wanted to move in with you why didn't he choose you first? He sounds like a 'user' so don't be foolish and get used. I'd move on.
2007-03-06 18:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sunday P 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From A Mans Point Of view watch out he wants something from you!!!
2007-03-06 18:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by German T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he misses you or things didn't work out with the other girl...need more info to tell.
2007-03-06 18:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are just wasting his time.
2007-03-06 18:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case you need to trust your instincts.
2007-03-06 18:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
waste of time
2007-03-06 18:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by nadaclue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋