My boyfriend was over at my house the other day and I ended up completely naked while he retained his pants. We wound up making out on my bed while his hands entertained themselves, and then I ended up making out with him on top of him. I didn't really know what to do besides that, does anyone have any good advice? Also, what are some good ways to spice things up a little? Oh, and I dislike being in charge, but he loves it when I am. Any hints on what to do to drive him wild? (We're both 15, btw)
2007-03-06 10:53:03 · 17 answers · asked by theowls_arenot_whattheyseem 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely too flipping young but I can't tell you what to do. If you're going to do it, use a condom.
2007-03-06 11:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Paul P 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
15!!! 15!!!!! Keep your pants on girlie!!! Do you have any idea what you are getting into! Pregnancy, STD's, heartbreak, bad reputations! I know you feel invincible, nothing bad will happen to me. BUT IT WILL!!! You should be focusing on much more important things in your life right now. You do not need sex for attention, affection or love. IBeing sexually active does not make you any more mature or more of an adult. If anything, shuch behavior only highlights you immaturity and inability to examine the potential consequences of your actions! It sounds like you guy is afraid to get to the next level and he should be!!!
2007-03-06 11:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by c q 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
15!!!! Naked in your room on your bed!?! Where were your parents? Yes, good advice is to keep your clothes on, keep it light, stay out of the bedroom, keep all 4 of your hands to yourself, and develop a friend relationship. Did you ever think far enough in advance about the result of things like pregnancy and STDs (some of them permanent and deadly!)?
2007-03-06 11:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by rugbee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what u need advice about, i mean u did nothing.. and he retained his pants, there's no needs to spice things up as you did nothing yet you might find it entertaining later. and i had the same problem that my ex used to like me to be in charge but u can let him know by telling him for instance "i liked it when u did whatever because i felt you are in charge" stuff like that.
2007-03-06 11:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a little slvt. Go to school and leave boys along or you will be having a child in about 9 months.
2007-03-06 11:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My advice...keep the clothes on! Save yourself for the man you fall in love with, the man you marry and have children with. It may seem fun now but in a few years when you do find "the one" you will regret every sexual experience you had previously because they will mean NOTHING compared to the love making experience with your one true love.
2007-03-06 10:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
u are way too young. keep ur clothes ON and the furthest u should go is making out. if u do decide to have sex use protection and birth control. but ur waaaay too young for that.
2007-03-06 11:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by diaryofxxjane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are both too young. I also noticed that you didn't mention birth control. If you want to play adults, you will face the consequences if you don't take precautions. Perhaps you should talk with your parents about this.
2007-03-06 10:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by Abby 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
youre WAY TOO YOUNG! im 16 and i had sex with my 18 year old boyfriend.i majorly regretted it.im not ready for that until marriage and neither are you.thats something special you share with your spouse. so wait till youre married
2007-03-06 11:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE WAY TOO YOUNG TO BE DOING THIS STUFF. YOU ARE PUTTING YOURSELF IN A DANGEROUS SITUATION WHERE YOU TWO WILL END UP HAVING SEX IF YOU DON'T STOP ALL OF THIS FOREPLAY. I AGREE WITH MOST OF THE PEOPLE ON HERE, I NEVER HAD SEX AT 15, THIS IS RIDICULOUS. WERE YOU RAISED BY HUMANS OR ANIMALS? SOMEBODY NEEDS TO TELL YOUR MOMMA ON YOU!!! NANEE NANEE BOO BOO!!!
2007-03-06 11:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋