ex: I'm a fool in love with you and hope I satify you deep down.
or ex: where have you been and with who, how come you didnt answer your phone when I called.
So someone explain what is the meaning of being insecured in a realtionship.
2007-03-06 10:47:34 · 6 answers · asked by rah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not only insecure but controlling....nless you are married you dont have to inform them of anything that you do....I definately don't tell my fiance everything and I know he doesnt tell me anything and we dont ask either...if you completely trust someone it shouldnt matter where they were or why they didnt answer the phone!!!
2007-03-06 10:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by Soon2BMrsCarlson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those example questions answer your question. If you truely trusted a person you wouldn't have to ask those question. And the reason why you don't trust the person (unless if they have given you hard cold evidence not too) is b/c deep down you can't understand what they see in you and why they would want to be with you. So you project that insecurity by asking questions such as those....you need consistant reassurance that they love you and they will not or were not cheating on you or leave you for someone else.
You have to love yourself first before you can truely love anybody.
2007-03-06 18:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being insecure in a relationship means that you feel inferior to the person you are with, you feel that you don't deserve them and at anytime they can leave you or deeply hurt you and move on with their life like nothing happened while you sit at home depressed and crying wondering what is wrong with YOU! Being insecure is not trusting your significant other and being worried everytime they step foot outside the door that they are cheating or doing something they know you disapprove of especially if it will hurt you.
2007-03-06 18:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being insecure in a relationship means that you worry when you don't hear from them. That you're afraid that they are not going to see you again. That you're not interesting anymore to them. That someone else is going to take them away from you. Insecurity sucks!!!
2007-03-06 18:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second example.
2007-03-06 18:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh?
2007-03-06 18:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋