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ok here we go my best friend is really awsome we talk about everything literally. she is 18 and im 15. i have known her practiclly my whole life.. But like always she has a few flaws. and i think her flaws are heading her in a bad direction. she is unresponsible she smokes and drinks. she doesnt drink like all of the time but now and then. and i know she is slowly killing herself. not like cutting the rist but inside. i have saved her from a LOT and i cant help but thinking this is a fase but in the back of my mind i know its not. she works at a fastfood resturaunt shes kinda ovr wieght and it runs in her fam. and they all work at fast food. seeing wat her mom and sister are went through i dont want the same thing to happen to her. i tried to talk to her 'bout it she said she has been trying to fix up her life but i dont think she can do it by herself and she lives to far away for me to help her, and her mom just wouldnt care and i really dont know wat to do some1 help

2007-03-06 10:42:40 · 8 answers · asked by vallan1015 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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just encourage her alott! tell her you love her and that you are here fer here!!!
she jus needs support, like you said, she did say that she is tryin to fix up her life.

2007-03-06 10:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0 0

You sound like you are a lot more mature than your older friend! If her mother won't help her, and you can't, I'd move away from her fast. If she is arrested, you don't want to feel responsible. You said you've saved her from a lot, which means she depends on you, and that's not good. It will certainly cause more trouble in your life. My advice is as I said: move away from her, and do it now. You are so young and you need a better friend.

2007-03-06 11:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by meg 1 · 0 1

You sound like you are a lot more mature than your older friend! If her mother won't help her, and you can't, I'd move away from her fast. If she is arrested, you don't want to feel responsible. You said you've saved her from a lot, which means she depends on you, and that's not good. It will certainly cause more trouble in your life. My advice is as I said: move away from her, and do it now. You are so young and you need a better friend.

2007-03-06 10:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0 1

one of the best things you can do is be a good friend. you sound like you are really close, so good job on that. make sure she knows that she can call you anytime and that you're never too busy to help her. if you are religious, pray for her.

2007-03-06 10:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 1 0

You can't do anything for them. Those kind of people are all around us everyday. Pretty soon she'll be pregnant and on welfare. And then when you get older you can complain about how hard you work for your money and how fat pigs like that never do anything for society. Ah...the smell of freedom.

2007-03-06 10:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Justin G 4 · 0 1

Look in the yellow pages under churches in HER area, then call one and ask the pastor to visit her and her family,it cant hurt.If she is suicidal cal a prevention help hotline.

2007-03-06 10:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

u friend sound like she has a whole lot of stuff going on in her life.she needs help and you maybe to young to help her.she needs some one older to speak to.,some one who can help her deal with her problems.good luck to u and your friend

2007-03-06 10:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by macy 2 · 0 1

Thats intense! take her to the vet immediatly! hamsters decide on their teeth, the vet are able to place pretend ones in or they could improve lower back yet take her to the vet immediatly!!!!!!!!!

2016-12-18 16:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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