It always seems like I'm the one who wants to and I almost always initiate sex. What's up with that? He is 19 and supposed to be in his peak of sexual desire.
2007-03-06 10:41:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's getting it somewhere else, or he's gay.
2007-03-06 10:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by dovey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's like that at 19 he should see a doctor, unless you look like the back of a bus, or weigh 220lbs! he is not having a normal sex drive for his age group! I dont wish to be rude, but are you sure, he is not seeing some one else!? Have a good day.
2007-03-06 18:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just be tired. On the list of things that most girls don't know about guys, is that if we're really tired or stressed out, then our usual horniess just evaporates. Is your bf wokring a lot of hours or something like that?
If that's not it then maybe he just has a low sex drive,or worst case, maybe he's not that into you.
You should try asking HIM what's up, he'l be able to tell you a lot better than YA.
2007-03-06 18:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by T.Wang! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing for you to do is to ask him. Us answering this question without knowing either of you, or any of your personal details, is probably not much help. Just ask him, that will be better for the both of you, I think. Good luck.
2007-03-06 19:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by Brent W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has performance anxiety. Try the small things first and work up to the big things.
2007-03-06 18:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by Gen X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.....
You could just not be doing the right things to turn him on?
Or he could be cheating on you..... (let's hope not)
Or maybe it is simply that he just isn't comfortable with his body??
You should probably talk to him about this though if it really bothers you
2007-03-06 18:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by Omniscience 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate
tell him you want to have more sex
maybe he has a problem, there is medication to increase your sex drive but that would be a last resort in my opinion.
2007-03-06 18:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by xsrhx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're not attractive enough to ttickle his sexual bone. have you ever thought about that? or maybe he's just using you to clean his house. why don't you ask your boyfriend instead of strangers.
2007-03-06 18:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1- he is doing someone else
2- he isnt attracted to you physically
3- he is gay
4- he is insecure about his performance
good luck! cause I have the opposite problem !
2007-03-06 19:10:43 · answer #9 · answered by BitterEnding 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes secretly a WOMAN
*crowd gasps at the horror*
2007-03-06 18:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋