MY boyfriend never has time for me anymore...he is either tired sleepy or busy..should i break up with him?

Question

i do love him but i do need me and him time

to sky watcher...ugh what makes me a hoebag......first of all if you gonna insult someone learn ho to spell...u spell hoe--->ho like that

ooppp i meant how

Answer 1

I would get naked in front of him before I broke up with him. I don't know why, but I would definitely just walk up to your boyfriend butt naked. I think this would change him. He'd start having more time for you, he wouldn't be sleepy.

Answer 2

I have to say I have the same problem my boyfriend is always too tired but he told me that he gets like that. I just enjoy him no matter what..here is another kicker, we live in seperate countries...he lives in Italy and I live in Canada, so you know it makes it interesting. He told me before I was his gf that he gets very tired and he doesn't come on and he let me know, he had asked me to trust him. I do it is a big thing to do...and honestly with the distance it is hard. Trust me it is...but then I realize all the good in him and why I should just trust him..now I suggest that you look at all the pluses and negatives about him and your relationship...and see what really weighs more..be honest. Make sure you leave yourself a couple of hours of thinking it is like brain storming if it there is more good then keep with him and just be more understanding and supportive of him if there is a lot more bad things, then maybe think about options and discuss with him. Open communication always helps. Hugs.

Answer 3

When a guy has no time in his life to spend with his girlfriend AND have that intimate time, he has placed himself on a high pedestal and needs a wake up call. Sometimes, the threat of a break up is enough but sometimes it isn't. Sometimes an actual break up does the trick too, but when you get back together he may get it in his mind that he has you on a leash and not get the hint. Maybe a boyfriend/girlfriend talk is in order.

Answer 4

Have you talked to him about it?

Tell him what you need out of the relationship, before deciding to dump him. At least give him the chance to rectify the problem. That way, if he doesn't do so, then you won't be left wondering if you've done the right thing.

The biggest problem people have in relationships is lack of communication. Talk to him.

Answer 5

Well it looks like you and your boyfriend need to work some things out. See if you can arrange time to meet and do "together" activities. Maybe he can try to fit in some time for you in his schedule. And if he can't? Well, I truly think that a TRUE boyfriend would have time for you or a good excuse. If he doesnt do this...then maybe its time to start seeing other people.

Answer 6

Sit him down and have a good talk with him. Maybe he'll understand what he needs to do to save the relationship. If not then it's time to break up because you are probably wasting your time.

Answer 7

I would say break up with him because if he really cared he would still find the energy for you,to me it sounds like he doesn't like you or are cheating on you.But just to be kind give him a chose of what he wants to happen.

Answer 8

He may just take you for granted. Its for you to know if you should continue on with this relationship.Talking will not help much in the long run. Perhaps he's just an introvert person.

Answer 9

I read this one trick by Ann Landers once. Rather than to leave him, do something spectacular for him, something great. The woman who wrote said that she ended up falling for her husband all over again.

I don't guarantee it, but it's worth a try.

Answer 10

No you shouldn't, hoebag.

Heh, I was kidding.

You should give him the time of day at least, not just break it off with him. Talk to him about what is going on, and decide from there what is right for YOU.