When Im in class, I fear of going red.I figured out that makes it worse.But I try to forget but just cant because my friends always remind me of it.For example,today in class,I had to stand up in front of the class and present something.I could hear my friends snickering and joking about how im going to turn red,and that makes me worry that I am going to.So I turn red(of course) during the presentation and everyone laughed and joked.Its as if they want me to get humiliated.So everyday I worry of going red,and always feel like someones going to start making fun of me and then Ill go red.I lose all confidence and dread going to school now!When I get home I replay the day and when I turn red and think of how Im a loser.I mean Im not a loser cause I hang with popular groups and people buts its mainly when im around a lot of people and everyones got there eyes on me and im talkn that I start well........ you know.My friends never thought of me as a shy person, but this makes me become shy.
2007-03-06 10:39:24 · 7 answers · asked by alextillery 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Skin Conditions
honestly i dont think there is a way you can fix it but dont worry about it my face goes red too when i go in front of my class and stuff like that. the best thing to do is laugh it off. trust me be glad your not like my friend who was so nervous about a speech she was doing that she threw up when she was up infront of the class lol
2007-03-06 10:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by E.liz.a.beth 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're not a loser, you just blush easily. I am the same way, and although I'm now older, it still happens to me occasionally. The best way to get over it is to try to build up your self-confidence and just try not to focus on it. Yes, it will still happen, but the less you let it bother you, the faster it goes away.
Don't let this rule your life - it's not worth it! The less you visibly react to it or let it bother you, the less other people will react, laugh, etc.
The good thing about blushing is that it keeps a good blood supply to your skin, so it will keep you looking young longer than those losers who are making fun of you. :-)
Start by getting more comfortable talking to people one on one or in small groups, then move up to bigger groups. And, when you have to talk in class, just act like you don't even notice if you blush.
I know it's not easy, but just have faith in yourself!
2007-03-06 19:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by ktcruiser 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turning red is normal.
Actually the more you think about it, the more you probably turn red.
I used to have that problem, then I decided that I wasn't going to worry about turning red because there's bigger things in this world.
Everyone has their insecurities, and that is just your insecurity.
The fact that you equate this to being a loser, that means you just have bigger issues.
Get over it. Turning red is not a big deal.
Stop worrying about it and maybe you should focus more on your work, trust me, you won't blush if you don't think about it.
Maybe your friends are just being playful, but if there are just laughing at YOU and not with YOU, then maybe you should really reconsider hanging out with them.
2007-03-06 18:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by elidet_reyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you letting this bother you? First things first! You are not a looser! You're a blusher! You have your emotions show on the outside! I happen to love seeing a guy blush!!! And let me tell ya, most girls do too! We love seeing the affect that we may make a guy feel that way. The guys may tease you for it but, that's only because you let them. The only thing that I can say to help lessen it is to accept it and not let it get to you in an embarrassing, degrading way. But! I do have to say, don't hate it. It's very charming and soothing to see how a guy feels. Because we all know that guys like to be bad asses and only show their "macho" side. When it comes to girls...We like the whole package. Become confident and know that you are a bad *** and a sensitive person too. Believe me when I say, you will one day realize this and your girl will love it! No BS I promise!
2007-03-06 19:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by Mollie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do "medically" to alleviate the "blushing problem,you can however get some serious help with your "self-esteem" problem and the serious lack of feeling good about yourself. You sound very self conscious and confused.If you're able, find a "counselor" that works especially with teens and young adults,they can help with problems that many of us suffer from every day.Take care. SW RNP
2007-03-06 18:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by sharon w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the thing, you're afraid of it. don't be! embrace it, love it say yeah, i do something that you can't, dont let others bring you down. if people make fun of me, i find it easier just to look at myself (metaphorically) and just start making fun of myself along with them. they laugh cause it's funny, and now they're laughing with you (i know it's a cliche). you most likely are not a loser. even if you are (like me!) embrace it! i love being a loser! it's more fun! i mean, who wants to be normal? normal is boring! just don't let other control your life and make your decisions. you decide!! don't sweat the small stuff and embrace your loserness like me!
2007-03-06 18:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by piccilo hiccups 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,stand up and cuss them out.that's what I did.now nobody makes fun of me.not even my friends.CONTROL YOURSELF!!!if you don't they will always pick on you and hurt your feelings. and doesn't your teacher do anything?!!? you need to conquer your fears.don't pay any attention to what they say.then everybody will be shocked and respect you.or just be MEAN to them!
Good Luck!!!!!!!! I HOPE U SUCCEED!
2007-03-06 19:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by kiran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋