Am i over reacting???

Question

I've been seeing this guy for 3 months. Been taking things slowly and i wouldn't say it's too serious although he's never let me down before...
His motorbike broke down at his work (near my house) so i met him for a drink in a pub across the road while waiting for AAC.
When AAC came, he had to go back to his bike and i decided to hang on in the pub a bit longer (on my own, which i've never done before) until his bike got fixed. He tried to call me once but the line was engaged as i was on the phone. When i finished the conversation i had a text from him saying he had gone home!!! So i stayed for 40 mins on my own in the pub waiting for him and he didn't even have the decency to come and say bye, the excuse was that he had to ride the bike for 1/2h and that it wasn't easy to access the pub...almost literally across the road...hello!!!
I think it's rude and disrespectul. I didn't reply to his short 'sorry' text. Don't think i can be be bothered with him anymore.Am i over reacting???

Answer 1

Well I'd have to say yes and no on this one. I mean I understand that u feel upset that he left u there but at the same time u have to keep in mind that he did try callin you, I don't think he did it intentionally. His bike broke down and the guy must have been frustrated but atleast he tried calling u before he left..I mean,come on.. it's not like he cheated on u or anything like that. Anyways,so think about it, don't u think u're over-reacting jus a 'tad' bit? U should ask yourself, were u in a good relationship for the past 3 mths? Do u really wanna end things based on that little incident? Plus, he did say that he was sorry and I think he probably meant it.... Anyways, it's up to you hun... goodluck!.

Answer 2

Okay his bike broke down, you met him in a pub, he had to go so you stayed.

He tried calling you, it was busy, he left.

Are you over reacting? I would think so. If your vehicle broke down, would he have stayed at the bar without you? If it was so close to your home why didn't you wait there?

Anyway, maybe the problem with the bike was something that they fixed temporarily so he had to leave, and could not just hang out waiting for you. Did you ever think to ask?

Maybe he is the one who should think about this relationship and decide if he wants to stay with a girl that didn't care enough about his problem to check and see if he was okay?

Answer 3

Well, yeah, kinda...just let it go especially since he was probably stressed out and stuff...I mean, his bike broke down, that is a bad feeling ya know? Plus, on cell phones, even if you are talking on them another person calling you will come through...so why didn't you answer? He could be just as upset with you for not answering the phone and he would, too, be overreacting in my opinion. Just chill, let it go.

Answer 4

what he did is really rude, i mean it wouldnt kill him to say bye to you... you know, its rude but not to the extent that u will forget about him, if u are ready and want to do so just do it but probably not saying bye wont be the reason

Answer 5

maybe since having his bike breakdown was probably a pain in the ***... if you are so fickle though, u should break up with him cause u are not interested anyway.

Answer 6

No, you are not over reacting. That guy is too self centred and this won't be the first time he does something like that.
He's probably a mumy's boy.

Answer 7

It was rude and disrespectful. You're not over reacting. Don't let him get away with that **** now or he'll think he always can. It sets a precedent.

Answer 8

You're over acting.

Answer 9

yes

Answer 10

veryy much!