Ok, so I like this guy but he's a grade older than me. I don't think he even knows who I am, but he talked to just me this one time.What do I do?
2007-03-06 10:32:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whenevr u see him tell hi . get him to notice u . but don't come off to strong just be gentle.find out if he has a girl or not. find out what he likes. u can do it. if u really want him u will get him
2007-03-06 10:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Don't express you're feelings to him from the onset as this could scare him off. Make casual word exchanges--comment on something he has or an activity he's a part of. If he's a member of a club you've considered joining, sign up and give him a chance to get to know you.
Be calm and easy...keep the fact that you like him under wraps. Be friendly but don't seem overly interested. Once he gets a chance to know you and you him, wait a while and see how things go from there. Once you've become friends maybe then you can strike up the nerve to tell him how you feel :). Better yet, he might just beat you to it!
Good luck :)
2007-03-06 18:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by treznorfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it hes only 1 year older then u
2007-03-06 18:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by Popular girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one grade older. That's not too much, probably just right. Make sure he talks to you again and play it by ear. Although, don't be too visible too often, you might freak him out and scare him off.
2007-03-06 18:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by rugbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be kind, polite, respectful, and compassionate. Don't lead on that you like him either.
Play it cool. Women who do this will get any guy's attention because they are not like the others who play games and play with their hearts.
It's all a matter of being serious. Guys like a woman who can be nice about it too.
2007-03-06 18:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to have a little chit chat with him ask him what time is it drop your books in front of his locker try to let him pay attention to you.
Personally i don't think that's a bad thing to like someone older than you but any ways how old are you?
Good luck...
2007-03-06 18:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's only one grade higher, so thats not that big of a deal..talk to him at his locker or something..ask him if he wants to see a movie some time or grab a bite to eat with you..talk to him and get to know him juss hang out sometime..good luck ;]
2007-03-06 18:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by ree<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one grade is nothing in the matters of love. try and become friends, just try and talk to him a little, keep cool, and dont get too nervous. try and get to know him a little to see if hes even worth your crush too.
2007-03-06 18:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by cera_chaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and become his friend. make conversation with him. that's the only way you're going to be able to know. once you've established a friendship see where it goes from there. it's better to start off as friends anyways
2007-03-06 18:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by blue_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever you see him act friendly but not like obnoxious overly friendly just make a point in saying hey if you see him or helping him with stuff...just simple things like that...ask him about something, his favorite subject, say hey to him by his locker
2007-03-06 18:36:30 · answer #10 · answered by cocoapuff.1719 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋