I need advice on my relationship, and have no one to ask, so I was hoping someone out there might be able too.
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 mos. We never fight, we have fun and laugh and joke around when we are together. Well we recently had our first fight, and I have managed to put it into his head that our relationship has run it's course. We discussed it, and I was shocked by some of the things he said, like that we don't really have that much in common- he's my best friend, we talk about everything- we have a blast when we go out together, we talk about serious issues, as well as be silly. I'm doing my best to salvage our relationship and he has agreed to meet me tonight at a restraunt for some drinks to discuss it further, but seems like he's on his way out. I can't believe it, this is our first fight and we had a great relationship- people fight and then make up, they don't break up. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas of what I can say or do to salvage this
2007-03-06 10:23:57 · 7 answers · asked by katjha2005 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say your piece and walk away. If he wants to be with you, he'll come around, if not then do you really want to be with him anyway? You deserve to be with someone who cherishes you enough to not want to lose you over some argument.
2007-03-06 10:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by dovey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya wont like any of this...
I think there are maturity issues with both of you.
Relationships develop as intimacy does.
Accountability, reliability, dependability, emotional understanding, empathy, self control, forgiveness, tolerance, ...etc..etc..the list goes on and on.. all these characteristics and many more are bear ring and influential and relevant ...
You dont get a free ride just because you get a chance..!!..you get a chance because no ride will never be free..!!..if you haven payed the price of admission yet, dont try any short cut that will wind you up in trouble you aren't qualified to handle.
If you "managed' to convince him your relationship has run its corse, whats the problem?
Relationships change. Get on with life. Dont vassilate,.. demonstrate.
2007-03-06 18:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by olddogwatchin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is rediculious, over one fight. Must have been pretty bad. Sounds like he has hisd mind made up. Anger is a truth serum and that is how he feels. Sorry honey. There will be someone much better. I promise.
2007-03-06 18:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say like it like you did just now - it sounds like he just overreacted. Just tell him, "hey we had a big fight, I am sorry I hurt you, but I don't want to berak up." Easy as that. See what he says.
2007-03-06 18:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by dubstar23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's already got someone else in mind, and was looking for a "reason"
2007-03-06 18:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Master Richard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make out with him and if he likes it then he'll come to you for more.
2007-03-06 18:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by B rabit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it out and be honest
2007-03-06 18:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by myddad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋