Alright well, I kept leaving my friend andrew comments on myspace and deleting and revising em, The comments didn't say anything innapropiete or anything but I feel I cheated on my girlfriend or did her wrong somehow? I was telling him I didn't have my drivers license because I failed the test ,I added a
"-_- "emoticon in the comment and I felt like that was gay and I took it out, then I deleted rewrote the comment again because I didn't feel what I wrote was completly honest, I did that like twice, I feel like I did something wrong, like cheated on my gf because of that, I'm not gay, I don't have anything against gays but can someone truthly tell me how silly i'm acting about this?because I don't understand why I feel bad,My thoughts have been really out of whack lately,I've had sex with a female before and enjoyed it,i'm not gay, I'm not attracted to my friend andrew but I felt like I did something wrong,I don't talk to him that much&I had no homosexual intent. should I just chill?
2007-03-06 10:21:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The lady doth protest too much......
2007-03-06 10:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're bugging, what's the issue if you say you don't have feelings for him? It sounds like you didn't say anything wrong to him that even if you did say it to a girl it would constitute cheating. You may have a deeper issue than this, or you might just be stoned and very paranoid ... but whatever it is it seems like this feeling is not coming from the comment you wrote but some insecurity you have in the back of your mind ... hope you figure it out
2007-03-06 18:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Like Nothing Else 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely possible to have a crush on someone, and it's not a sexual attraction. You really want this person to like you... because for whatever reason they seem important to you....you probably have a fantasy of them being a better friend to you then they currently are...or you think they aren't as interested in your friendship as you are with thiers... and that makes you second guess all the messages your leaving.... But if sex is comming up in your mind you do want to consider if you might be bi.... go easy on yourself
2007-03-06 18:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by aguardiente_blkr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Makeing things up as you write each other wont make it right. My suggestion is to email him right away and set him straight. If you like him tell him so. Maybe you can meet some day and go for walks to your favorite places whether money is spent or not maybe you just like to talk to each other,BUT what-ever be honest. He'll respect you more for that, providing he's honest and up to par.
2007-03-06 18:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh what's gay about "-_-" that? I think you should chill and stop worrying about people thinking you're gay cause of something you wrote on your friends myspace page...
2007-03-06 18:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by Laurie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - just chill! If you are worried how she will react (and it sounds like you think she would react negatively) then SHE is the one with the problem. Perhaps too controlling of your time and who you talk with. If this is the case, please set boundaries for her to follow, or end your relationship with her.
If I am interpreting this incorrectly, add more details.
2007-03-06 18:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by I See You 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be gay for all I know but I would not worry so much about what others think. It's what you think that really matters. If you feel you have behaved in a gay manner then stop yourself and think about what you have done.
2007-03-06 18:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you ever heard the saying, he protests too much..
if you are attracted to your friend you are probably gay.
live day to day and see what happens. if you find that you are attracted to other guys,,, then that's who you are attracted to. there is no rush to commit to anything right now..
relax and enjoy your life, it's too short to be worrying over this now.
2007-03-06 18:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. Maybe you are just reading too much into it. Just chill.
2007-03-06 18:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it really depens on how you feel like i have this friend who is gay and he told no1 but me and now only 3 other people but me and he did not know he was untell one day i asked him so then he really thought about it and he is and i believe you need to just sit and think bout how you really feel bout the hole thing ^_^ good luck
2007-03-06 18:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by t~kat_6_6_6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be just feeling bad because your keeping secrets from her.
2007-03-06 18:25:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋