2007-03-06 10:15:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No! I am saving sex for marriage, and I only kissed my boyfriend after 1 month of dating.
2007-03-06 10:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by reba 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why? Are you worried about your Daughter going all the way???? Or are you asking to make sure it's ok if she does - and if that is the case are you crazy??? She shouldn't even be dating yet! Why would you ask this unless your concerned and don't want your Daughter to get hurt and seeing how many actually do... know what I mean? But seriously, she should NOT be dating at 14 unless you wanna be a Grandpa a lot sooner than you expect.
2007-03-06 18:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by Some Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Typically no. However, it just depends on how your daughter handles those situations.A first date is more than likely harmless for a 14 year old girl. Give her freedom, but be aware of the crowd of people she hangs out with, sometimes the things that friends do will influence her judgement.
2007-03-06 18:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by BlondeQT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to imply anything or put anyone in a category or try to make myself look like your typical guy, but all my girlfriends put out on the 1st or 2nd date and I ended up in two 2-year relationships with both of them. Then they both cheated on me. I know for a fact that some girls can be gullible and/or naive & that guys can be very persuasive in some way. Honestly, there is no way to stop people from having sex besides handcuffing yourself to one of them but I think that's going a little too far. The only thing you can do is talk to them, explain protection & hope they use their brains.
2007-03-06 18:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by Paul P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im 15 years old and i definately do not go all the way on the first date, most girls dont. The furthest i have ever gone is making out. There have been many times when guys have tried to pressure me into sex or tried to take off my shirt while kissing, but i always said stop or no. teen guys definately try to pressure girls into sex, but since my parents have talked to me about stds, pregnancy, and that i can always say no or stop, i have always followed their advice. I think you should definately talk to your daughter about stds because they're worse than getting pregnant. You should also tell her that its ok to kiss the boy, but if he tries to go further than that that she should stop him. You should also let her know that you wont be mad if she calls you and asks you to pick her up if she ever gets uncomfortable with the guy or if he tries to pressure her. the most important thing she needs to know is that she doesnt have to do anything that makes her uncomfortable or to make the guy like her.
2007-03-06 18:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by diaryofxxjane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never. I don't think 14 year old girls should ever go all the way.
2007-03-06 18:20:10 · answer #6 · answered by Lexy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! At 14?? No way. At 27, sometimes -- with a little booze and a dry spell in between relationships. And then it's called a one-night-stand. But at 14, hell no!
2007-03-06 18:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by Christine S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have several young girls that I kinda mother...and they didn't. Oh, papa...keeps those lines of communication open to where she can come to you for advice and support her with birth control plans when the time is needed. Rather is was right or wrong, when my son was 13 I gave him a box of condoms saying that I would prefer that he waited for marriage but if he needed them...I would supply...
2007-03-06 18:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not go verry far on a first date unless he was like my best friend or something.But still I would only go as far as a little kiss, no making out or anything.
2007-03-06 18:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your worried about your daughter having sex too young, then i suggest you talk to her about it also. Explain your feelings about sex at a young age and what can happen... pregnancy (although not the worst thing these days) STD's, AIDS, and everything else associated with it. That it's not just something to do for "fun" at that age. If she has a boyfriend that you are worried about talk to both of them, they are too young to experiment.
2007-03-06 18:27:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋