I was N love w/ a guy last year & he broke^ w/ me 4 several reasons 1 he wasn't able 2 trust himself so he could not trust me & he felt no reason 2 have relationship. So he ended it w/ me. He started dating others & realize somethin was missing from him. Then he calls me 4 months later & tells me "Happy Birthday" thinkin he'd be able 2 come back & be w/ me, but I was w/ someone who took his place. I told him I would call him back, but I called back about 2 months later. I didn't find anything wrong w/ that b/c I was occupied w/ the other guy. I'm so use 2 him not callin me 4 weeks/months & when I finally did, it bothered him. He had his heart open 4 me & didn't tell me what was on his mind b/c he was hurt I was w/ new guy. He told me he loves me & wants 2 marry me. Then we stop talkin' 4 months now he calls back serious. He wants me back & I'm w/ some1 else. I care bout him & the other, but I'd leave the other 4 him b/c he still has my heart. What would you do if this were you?
2007-03-06 10:14:28 · 4 answers · asked by BitterSweet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like this guy is a genuine friend. He wants an open dialog with you and waiting for you to respond in the same way.
Ask yourself, How many guys are like this in your life? How many actually care enough to want the very Best for you and only want you to be happy? ...
Very few guys will be willing to go out on a limb for you as well.
You should be so lucky as to find someone like him and hold on to him forever if you can.
Although he has had personal issues with trust, they are resolved now. He believes very much in those values that mean the very best for everyone too: trust, respect, honesty, caring, sharing, appreciation, and unconditional love.
In any friendship, you have to have open communication first, because this builds trust right off. It is a good thing here and best for both of you to talk talk talk whenever and whever you can.
Don't be shy. He has taken the first step in keeping in touch with you.
Remember, 99% of all the people out there are just out for themselves and/or for money ... the 1% that are not are like this guy. He is a keeper.
2007-03-06 10:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be very cautious of people who play mind games and try to force you into a decision. If you love him fine then be with him, but you need to make sure that he is being honest and up front with you.
2007-03-06 18:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by Chris B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is the type of guy to where as he wants you because he can't have you. So don't give in and go back to him because then he'll switch it back up.
2007-03-06 18:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get with the one that u really love the one u would be with if he only had on leg!
2007-03-06 18:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by sexysyi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋