my grandmother is really important to me.she's moving out of my house and into my aunt's house to take care of my two baby cousins.the first time this happened was because my dad said something stupid to my grandma that made her move out.she came back to my house because the aunt that i'm talking about paid her a small, unfair amount.NOW my aunt wants my grandma back living with her and my aunt will pay her $100 a week to look after her two kids.that's where the moving out thing comes into play and i cried about it just last night cuz i really car about my grandma and i dont wanna see her go again.she'll come visit during the weekends and stuff but it wont be the same as seeing her in my house all the time...can someone PLEEZ give me some advice on how to cope with this pain?????
2007-03-06 10:10:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The only thing that is constant with life, is change. Change is sometimes good.....helps you grow. I'm sure it'll be different around your house, but you have to accept this change and roll with it. Not accepting it won't do any good. Be happy for your grandma........she feels needed, wanted, and will make some money too. Just be behind her 100% whatever she does, support her decisions......you don't have to like them, but just be on her side. It'll help in the longrun to cope as well. Best of luck to you.
2007-03-06 10:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world cannot revolve around what you want. People you like will enter and leave your life for as long as you are alive, so you're better served enjoying the time you have with them and being thankful you had them in your life at all.
You need to be strong and develop some independence. Life rarely goes the way we'd like, but it always keeps going.
Remember to be one who makes things happen in their life, rather than one who things happen to.
Be glad you can still see her, that's she's still alive, and still a part of your life. You're lucky to have had her at all. Now your Aunt and cousins need her, so be happy she can be there for them now.
2007-03-06 10:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by wrdsmth495 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she lives nearby you could go and visit her. It sucks but it could be worse...at least you get to see her every weekend. And you can always talk to her on the phone during the week.
Maybe you need to get a grip
2007-03-06 10:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by duvalicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋