Before I ask anything, just so you know, I'm not a slapper?

Question

but I find myself attracted to a guy at college even though I am in a relationship (and have been for years). I'm feeling so guilty about it. He's extremely attractive but not in a sex god sort of way. I don't know what is wrong with me...

I don't love him. That's a bit drastic. I really love my long-term boyfriend. I just get all hot and bothered when this guy looks at me

a slapper is a ****

slapper is another word for a s*l*u*t

Answer 1

dirling, feel atracted to someone else is normal, most of all if you are in a very long relantionship with someone else, it gets bored and u feel the need to look around. Point is, do u wana look around and stick to your boyfriend that loves u or u wana destroy everything for a person that u badly know? in the end doesnt matter what people will think of u but what u really want

Answer 2

Sweetheart it's human nature, so your attracted to another guy, you find him pleasing on the eye, who can honestly say hand on heart they haven't been where you are now?
I have been with my boyfriend for over 10 years and i love the ground he walks on and have never ever cheated on him, but if a good looking guy catches my eye im gonna look, and looks all i will do.
As long as you dont act upon your feelings your not doing anything wrong, and despite what some people have said you are definitely not a slapper, so i wouldn't lose any sleep over it.

Answer 3

Of course you are not a slapper! These things happen... it just depends how far you want to take it really. Sounds like you are young and maybe need to do a bit more experimenting first. It sounds like you have a crush on him. Have you ever spoken to him? If not pluck up the courage to find out about him - you may not like him as much once you get chatting. Or you may click with him. Perhaps things have gone a bit stale with your boyfriend. Theres nothing wrong with you. My advice is stop the guilt and keep your options open, theres no harm in talking to him.....

Answer 4

So you're a normal woman, you're attracted to men. The important thing is, what are you going to do about this guy? Answer that question, and THEN you'll know whether you're a slapper or not.

Answer 5

if u do anything ur a slapper but as long as u dont then its alright nothing wrong with that but u dont love bf that much but this other guy is just lust its like a "what if?" question that u shouldnt answer ever

Answer 6

Harmones.We all get attracted to others.There's a TV weather girl
down here called Becky.She is a real peach.I watch the weather early evening to see if she is on.But i am single.Have you reached
the stage.Where your wondering where your relationship is going
and subconsciously using this guy as a focus distraction.

Answer 7

maybe your relationship needs spiced up. forget the college boy. he's stirred up something you should be sharing with your partner(unless you've gone off him).get your partner hot under the collar, show him what he's missing. put your most seductive outfit on(not tarty, unless he likes that!!) have candles burning instead of the lights on. give him a massage then whatever else you fancy. dont waste your time pining for the college boy, you have the real thing at home....enjoy.

Answer 8

What's a slapper?

Answer 9

I dont think there is anything wrong with finding someone attractive even if you are in a relationship. As long as you do not let it go further. As your relationship become stale!

Answer 10

you aren't a slapper! it's normal to feel that way, to be attracted to other people....Theres nothing wrong with you