I was over at her house last fri. night and i started flirting. Then all of the sudden he starts rubbing my thiegh!! I really like him and i know he likes me but should i go for it?
2007-03-06 09:50:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to your friend about it, be honest. My bestfriend ended up marrying my brother! they were both very honest with me from the beginning and very sensitive of my feelings. I could see how much they cared about me, and how much effort they were putting into making me feel included, so...it never bothered me. I hope it all works out!
2007-03-06 09:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better run that one by your friend first. It might really wierd her out to have her best friend dating her brother. If she doesn't like the idea, drop it. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
And also, a guy who shows interest in you by rubbing your thigh is a loser and is really only looking for one thing. It wouldn't be worth it to ruin your friendship for something we all know would never work out to be anything real or lasting.
2007-03-06 17:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by starlight_940 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha. I started something up with my brothers best friend, didn't tell my brother and i fell for this guy big time. I am with him now, and we told my brother. But my brothers still a bit funny about it.
Have a chat to her brother, and just see if what he wants is what you want. Its best to make sure with him before jumping in the deep end and telling your friend. Then have a chat to your friend. Tell her your intentions and let her know you will still be her friend and it wont change your friendship with her.
The most important thing is tell her before you fall for him and before it makes it harder to give him up if you really have too. You dont want to lose your best friend.
2007-03-06 17:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, but don't let your relationship get in the way of your friendship of your friend. Remember she was your friend before you met him. Make sure she knows you are not using her to get to her brother. Talk to her about it and see if she is ok with it. There might be things she wants to fill you in on before you get involved.
2007-03-06 17:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it! That way it will save gas money by visiting two people without having to drive all over town.
2007-03-06 17:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by Rogue Tomato 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your best friend first. see how she feels and make sure you get her real opinion. a guy is not worth ruining a friendship over, even if you really like him.
2007-03-06 17:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend how she feels about it. It would rock to go out with your friend's brother because then you can kinda keep tabs on him without him actually knowing! I wish my friends had hot brothers, but sadly, they only have eight year old, nose picking brothers. Gross!
2007-03-06 17:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you should go for it and if it starts to ruin your friendship then you should tell her brother that it is hurting your friendship and that friendship is much stronger than a little crush. Hopefully he will understand. =)
2007-03-06 17:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by kEiLaH<3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if he dosen't go with anybody thin just go for it because you dont want to go wit some one and they end up have drama with you.if your afraid that it may mess with you and your best friend relationship bcause if she was a true friend and something go wrong with you and him thin she shouldnt get mad so really i want to tell you is to follow your heart
2007-03-06 17:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by amelia d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure why not, I'm sure if he's a decent guy, your friend will be happy, just be careful that you don't start leaving her out
2007-03-06 17:54:07 · answer #10 · answered by He's my world 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋