First time to fall in love. Eventhough I'm 19, I've never fallen in love expect well.. this one time. Met this guy a year ago, started dating 4 months after we've met. First I was sceptic *I was down on love* but then I started developing some serious feelings for him. I think he loves me too but part of me is still a little bit down on love. I'm scared I'd lose him, I'm scared I'd let my emotions go and love him very much n then he dumps me or sth bad happens. It would really suck not having him around anymore and I'm scared of the idea of going through a break up. I'm also a bit scared to believe he really loves me basically because I dont wanna be disappointed.
What do I do to just let myself go and not be so scared?
2007-03-06 09:45:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is that we sometimes give a person our feelings and hope that they take care of them. we are afraid that they wont care for them properly. sort of. if you allow them to mishandle your feelings...you allow yourself heartache. be open and secure about how you feel about that person...doesnt mean they can be open and secure with you. we cant control how another person feels..unless of course we are spell casters or dictators. just believe in yourself. you say, im going to love this person. i will do my best. because we cannot predict others thnking or future events...we try to have faith in the other person and their abilities...the future is unpredictable and chancy. we take the risk and hope for the best. why cant you do it? you dont want to.
when you want to..you will. peace
2007-03-06 09:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax and live life.... if you break up, thats just something that happens to just about everyone and necessary part of life to experience!
Apart from that, best of luck... all i can say is if u act paranoid, that will kill your relationship, but if u relax and be happy.. things might go well!
2007-03-06 09:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you just answered your own question... just let yourself go and don't be scared!!
2007-03-06 09:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by why do you want to know my name? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋