i meet a saudi, he say he marry me, but i'm mexican, he lying to me?

Question

Hello, i meet a saudi man, he say he wants to marry me, but some people say that saudi woman won't let me marry him, woman of his family because they hate latinas, is this true??, and why?? i'm a electronic engineer, and catholic, he told me that he respect my religion and profession that he want a woman like me, how can i be sure of his intentions whit me??, i have to decide because he gonna ask for my hand soon, he gonna go to meet my father in Mexico, my dad a doctor, but he say he likes the saudi, how i ask him about his intentions?, and to ask him to stay here better in the USA??

Answer 1

There are a lot of differences in cultures, religion and family in this relationship. I would slow down and give this relationship some more time to develop. It sounds like you have a lot of self doubt about this relationship and you are asking questions that you should already have the answers to before you commit.

Answer 2

Where does he wish to live? That would be the biggest indicator to me. If he wishes to live here, then you have a better chance. If he is here on a scholarship for the Saudi government, he could loose it for marrying a non-Saudi. His family will be a huge factor in your marriage, so be prepared. Has he told them about you yet? If not, then why? If you are questioning his intentions, then I'd be worried.

Answer 3

tell him you have to wait 5 years just too see what he says write down things he says and then ask them again in different ways see if he lies to you ,he could be looking for a way to get green card,and so many people have had bad luck so be carefull,do a lot of work on it and get creative with seeing how he realy feels

Answer 4

mideast men are lately trying to marry mex, american etc, to stay here do not fall for it,