okay, so there is this one girl i really like and she just got over a really traumatic relationship. I hang out with her everyday after school but i get really nervous around her and i'm afraid to flirt with her and stuff. so what i need to know his how could i get this girl to like me?
2007-03-06 09:42:00 · 15 answers · asked by Eric F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, so there is this one girl i really like and she just got over a really traumatic relationship. I hang out with her everyday after school and we talk on the phone a lot but i get really nervous around her and i'm afraid to flirt with her and stuff. Everytime i try to say something intelligent it comes out wrong, also she flirts with other people but not me. so what i need to know his how could i get this girl to like me?
2007-03-06 09:49:24 · update #1
be yourself
2007-03-06 09:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by TINyy - l e a r n i n q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay eric, you know as well as i do that youre never gonna get any where if you dont start hittin on her. in this situation you dont want to move to fast, but you still need to make a move. first of all, whats this about being affraid. you cant be affraid, affraid is when her parents catch you makin out or something. so what you do is just start to slowly progress your friendship to the next level, show her that your mature and are just the stability that she needs after the breakup, you need to take advantage of that breakup and show her that youll always be there for her. pretty soon youll find that shes just as into you as you are into her. from there let the dating begin. o, and most importantly dont rush into this relationship, dont be a dumbass and buy her a ring or anything
2007-03-06 17:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by mike m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now being there for her is doing more for her than you can ever imagine. Let her get over her feelings for the bad break up before you pursue anything with her. You never want to be the rebound boy...it will never last. So just continue to be her friend and then let her know how you feel in small ways. Please give her time to heal first that is very important...you don't want to pay for the mistakes of the other person that was in her life....so give her time.
Hope this helps!!! Remember stay her friend and let her know that she can trust you. Let her get over it then move in later on...when what's his name is not getting her mad just thinking about it. You know what I mean I hope! Good luck!!
2007-03-14 17:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by DePressed08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing you can do is just be there for her when she gets over that relationship. Don't rush anything because she is probably still really hurt. Take her out sometime and maybe it will turn into something more.
2007-03-14 17:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Shelby N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all be yourself. Even if you would play to be superman you would show your real self after a while.
Then try and gather some courage, don't be afraid to talk to her. Be nice, and most of all smile. I think a smile is a thousand words.
PS. you don't have to block yourself to one girl, there are many of them. If you are not compatible with each other don't force it:)
2007-03-06 17:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, be yourself -- which means, before you get someone to like you, you need to make sure you like yourself, first.
And be honest with her -- tell her she means a lot to you, so much so that it makes you nervous sometimes, but that you really like being around her.
Is this a hundred-percent sure way of getting her to like you? No. But it's sure to help you find out if she's likely to...and if it does, you'll know she likes the real *you*, if you're always yourself with her.
Good luck!
2007-03-06 17:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by tantrickster 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go on and talk to her. Don't flirt as some girls get turned off. You'll know sooner or later if you're his cup of tea. If not, tough luck.
2007-03-06 17:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by vercast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i was in somthing like that before, a guy liked me but was to shy to tell me and i hung out with him alot to. One day bring up somthing like "You look very nice today." or somthing that she'd like to hear, then think about how she'd feel if you were to tell her that you like her, most likely she'd be happy, if you start feeling nervous breath, breath, breath count to 10 relax yourself and think about good things that may happen if you tell her ok ^_^
2007-03-06 17:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro, the best answer is to be yourself all ways, because if you pretend to be or act like someone else, then she wont be really like you huh.
2007-03-14 17:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by armen09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself
walk up to her and tell her you like her
she will probably like you back
at least i hope so
2007-03-06 17:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice. Maybe even give her a ring!
2007-03-06 17:45:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋