It seems that when im talking to my boyfriend and when we are spending time alone, i have a wonderful time, but if its been a while since we talked i start to question whether or not i like him...is this normal?
2007-03-06 09:30:22 · 15 answers · asked by Carlos G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I start to question whether or not i like him, even though i love talking to him and hanging out with him...this is my first relationship, so im a bit confused ^_^
2007-03-06 09:40:31 · update #1
It has happened to me but i dont know if its normal think of your good times and if you want to have any more and if you dont want to have any more with this person stop seeing him.
2007-03-06 09:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by Melo o.0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You enjoy spending time with him, but want to experience more than just him? It sounds to me like you want to be his friend, not his girlfriend. Think about how you feel when you are with him. Not vague emotions, like, "I enjoy my time with him," but specifically, like, "I feel butterflies in my stomach when we're together." Or, "I feel like cuddling up to him and never letting go." Whatever emotions are dominant when you are with him, think about those and if they say "friend" or "boyfriend" to you. That should be your answer. If I were in your shoes, I'd probably call off the romantics and stick with a friendship. However, I'm not you, and you must decide for yourself what you feel is best. We are all just here to give advice, not commands!
2007-03-06 17:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dorkapotamus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH YA.. its normal. i liked a guy and we stopped talking cause we had nothing left to say and the relationship just kinda went down hill from there... that may not be your problem but just know that it is perfectly natural to doubt your feelings.
2007-03-06 17:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Hippiebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys feel as though if they speak to their girlfriend everyday they feel as though they would be "soomthering" them so he probably wants to give you "space". As longs it not weeks going by before u should speak to him, then i would't worry.
And the best thing u can do is let him know how you feel....
2007-03-06 17:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by queenzhottie78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You have doubts about your relationship. I have NO DOUBT that I am with the right person.
You are second guessing yourself, which means you don't trust yourself, which means you can't trust him.
Relationships are weird.
FP
2007-03-06 17:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorta
you start to question something about the relationship
like if my exgirlfriend didnt call me, or message me or whatever, i would think she didnt like me, never heard about vice versa though
2007-03-06 17:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm what would make u not want to be with him...u have to ask yourself that....but i havent had that problem so couldnt tell ya whether it is normal or not
2007-03-06 17:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by thanh hien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you need time and if you miss him later it means he is for you and if not im here lol or just give him the "love prove"
2007-03-06 17:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorta...I would take a 2nd look at this relationship if I were you. Don't doubt your gut instinct...if it's saying it's not right, then listen to it.
2007-03-06 17:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by whatever2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what happened to me...shortly after we broke up =[
2007-03-06 17:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by doubledee90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋