we have been broken up for a while and i have been single since. but he hasnt and it seems like everytime he gets sum1. im all intresting and all up in his buissness. like me and my best friend have to know the 5 w's. i didnt like that. he didnt give a crap about me anymore so y should i care about him, that and the fact that he is my ex. i relize all this. and i told my friend "ya know i dont want to talk or think about him, hes stupid and mean and can do whatever he wants". me and him have a class together and i dont look at him or talk to him.we completly ignore each other,even in the halls also. so basically its in my head thats the problem.even though im not talking about it.i still cant manage to stop thinking about it. i know it may sound like i miss him and and want him back, but i dont. and i dont know why im still thinking about him.he is the meanest guy iv ever met.and i relize now that the break up was for the best.but what should i do to stop thinking and careing about him
2007-03-06 09:21:27 · 8 answers · asked by Ladyjack12 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Distance yourself from him. It sounds like you're still in high school, so I know that can be hard. But you need to stay away from places that you know he'll be. Tell your friends to respect that you want to move on and that you don't want to talk about him anymore.
Also, find someone new. When you're busy thinking about a new (ahem, BETTER) guy, then that leaves little room in your mind to think about Mr. Jerk-Off.
2007-03-06 09:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by notsoswan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I know exactly how you feel. You try to move on and forget about him, but you just can't. Well, nothing will help you get rid of this feeling right away. It'll take some time and you just have to let yourself know that the break up was for the best, and that you will find someone that is worth you and truly wouldn't leave you for the world. Remember, you are worth a good man and you will find him soon.
2007-03-06 17:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by Smartees 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! My advice is to try and move on. Find someone else who will meet your needs and that you would have a good time with. Forget about the ex. Just think about how much of a jerk he is and how much better life would be if you had another man..preferably a bigger stronger man. It might actually make your ex think the same way you do now! And over time you will forget about your ex and be happy with your new man!
2007-03-06 17:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by RKO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl go on & on all you want.I"m going to B up front with you...You sound confused and as if your trying to convins your self as if you don't care.I'm only going to talk about YOU. You seem to me as if you can talk all you want & react all you can, BUT it's how your applying it. Look at him and you see what you want. 1 of the 2..you leave him alone & stop talking your smak or talk to him and move on with what ever come's of it..I'm sure both of you have much better thing's to worry about @ school then hatting him or him hating you.
2007-03-06 17:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink...alot
2007-03-06 17:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by nyckib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not trying to sound rude or anything, but my advice is to move on and just get another boyfriend or something.
2007-03-06 17:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what my daughter did... forget guys... you don't need one... most of them are jerks anyways... get a girlfriend!!!
2007-03-06 17:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by why do you want to know my name? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him
2007-03-06 17:25:55 · answer #8 · answered by pssssh please 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋