What Should I Do?
I've Been With This Guy For Seven Years(My Highschool Sweet Heart) And He Has Cheated On Me More Than Once That I Know Of And I've Taken Him Back Everytime But I Don't Think I Have Truely Forgiven Him The Last Time He Cheated And Recently Ive Been Seeing Someone Else And He Does Everything That My Guy Doesn't He Makes Me Feel Like I'm Falling In Love Again And Now I Don't Feel That I'm In Love With My Boyfriend Anymore.Last Night I Officially Cheated On Him By Sleeping With This New Guy And I Don't Feel Bad About It. Now When I Look At My Boyfriend Its Not The Same Should I Tell Him?Should I Move On?
2007-03-06 09:17:54 · 12 answers · asked by Dee Dee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a lying, cheating, bum who doesn't respect you. What else do you need to know. The guys a loser and you deserve better. Get out of this hellhole of a relationship and findsome who will treat you the way you deserve to be reated.
2007-03-06 09:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you now have what is called an "open" relationship. Not very healthy at all. If you don't want to be a swinger, you need to put an end to the behavior. In other words, you need to be alone for awhile until you figure out why you need a man to make you happy. Once you become happy all by yourself, you can go back to dating with the purpose of finding a lifetime husband. At that point, you will begin to attract a man who is interested in a lifetime marriage of devotion.
Unless you like that sort of thing.
Please use 10 types of birth control if you decide to continue your love life the way it is now.
2007-03-06 17:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mark M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right, but you already did it and if you feel that you need to move on then so be it. Remember, you have a past with you boyfriend, is it worth losing over a fling that will only last a minute? Make sure, cause you might end up regretting it, atleast that is what my ex tells me.
2007-03-06 17:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly don't think this will last because you don't trust him. If he keeps "feeding" you affection a little at a time, you'll keep going back to him but you'll never be satisfied. Sorry if I don't make any sense. I think the fact that you're asking this question means you only need confirmation of what you already know, yes you should move on.
2007-03-06 17:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by Tippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you that many times you shouldn't have taken him back to begin with, but I understand love makes you crazy. If you don't feel bad and you are happy with this other guy and you feel like you're falling in love with him than it's time to move on and focus on making yourself happy! You deserve to be happy and if you are falling in love with this new guy you aren't in love with your HS sweetheart anymore, being that if you are already in love you don't fall for someone else. Just do what makes you happy. Be with the person that makes you feel good about you! Good luck!
2007-03-06 17:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by cheesussinclair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend he's been wonderful but you feel the need to start your life in a direction without him. Don't tell him about your new man, besides he does not deserve an explaination he did cheat on you.
2007-03-06 17:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you now have a open relationship and it need to be addressed by he and you and if he keeps on you keep on as long as it is a fit be open with what you feel and see
2007-03-06 17:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by Martha H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell him but you should move on. There's nothing left for you in that relationship.
2007-03-06 17:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by Rogue Tomato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he know you capitalize the first letter of every word?
2007-03-06 17:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by music junkie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes just leave him...what goes around comes around
2007-03-06 17:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by ♫♥♪♬♥♪Try Me♫♥♪♫♥♪♬ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋