My deal is that, my bf from Italy, made a big huge hint that he doesn't want me to have any more Italian men on my page. But it is ok for him to have these attractive thin women with hardly anything on and I can't be jealous because they are thinner then me? What is wrong with this picture? I have run into men like this lately, one who I was interested before my present bf and now my bf too. I am calling not fair.
2007-03-06 09:10:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no way to explain this one good but I think that men are way more insecure then women and the women on his page builds his confidence but men on your page makes him feel like he is competing.I 'm sorry but these kinds of things aren't fair but it's just the way it is.
2007-03-06 09:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that they think they have the right, they don't even realize how hypacritical they are being. We are born with the instinct to be jealous and want control. For men it's a little worse because they have been "breeded" to believe that they are in charge of the house. They use the excuses that it's okay for a man to flirt or have other women as friends or more becuase it's "natural". It is not right at all but honestly in my personal life it has been a huge issue for me being jealous and in my experience neither parties think that they are doing anything wrong, and some are absolutely unaware of the fact that they are making you jealous or worse hurting you. On top of all this who doesn't start to feel insecure when someone wants your significant other? And who doesn't love having the attention? Jealousy is a terrible thing but the best thing you can do is reasure eachother, and make some rules and always put yourself in your partners position and think how you would feel if you were there......it's hard but you have to be the strong one and TRUST him, then he will learn to trust you.
2007-03-06 19:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by Christa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not fair and you don't have to tolerate it. Arguing with him over it probably wont resolve it. You decide what's best for you. It's your life. If you both are expecting to change each other to suit yourselves, it can't and wont happen and will only cause resentments and headaches between you in your futile efforts.
2007-03-06 17:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that they are only friends and that you like him more than any of these guys. Stand your ground though. He will come to understand and he will respect you more in the long run.
2007-03-06 17:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by Selena H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
Real men aren't possessive but bous are usually of the thinking that they can have a "harem" and it's ok. i would suggest finding a real man who respects you and only has pictures of you wearing little, but only if the pictures are for his pleasure only
2007-03-06 18:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's fair.
2007-03-06 17:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men are twisted period.
2007-03-06 17:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont have all these "super hot models" anywhere, and never will
2007-03-06 17:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋