What should I think/ do? we're supposed to get married in two months! :(
2007-03-06 08:54:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He should love you for you, not for what you could become.
2007-03-06 08:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want my honest opinion, that is a red flag. You probably are looking better now than you ever will look. If he's not happy now, what makes you think he'll be happy with you, after you have a baby, gain ten pounds, get sick, have to have an operation. I really think you should reconsider this marriage. Please don't rush or feel pressured to marry him just because you've told everybody and you've set a date. You should tell him that this is your body, and that is your decision, and you choose not to. Tell him to get a penis enlargement instead and see what he says to you, and that answer should be the same one you give him. Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all. If he can't or won't love you for your inperfections then you are wasting your time, because father time is going to make you really understand what gravity is. If he's not happy with you now, I don't think he'll ever be.
2007-03-06 17:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah OMG what are you thinking. A husband or soon to be should not be asking you to do that. What do you think it will be like next time he asks you to do something that stupid. Come on open your eyes and get out before you get married to a man that will probably never be happy with the way you look or are.
2007-03-06 16:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him - what a complete moron! If he's only with you for your looks then what kind of marriage are you going to be having?! The fact that your putting up with his attitude sounds like you have serious self-esteem issues, go get sorted and find someone better!
2007-03-06 16:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by keeley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see your point... especially if you have a baby, you gain weight no matter what...
But take in mind... Most guys are more visual than anything... and if he was attracted to you when you were thin, and then you gain 50lbs suddenly, he might want you to trim it down a bit, or else he is gonna find someone else...
atleast you found out he is an a$$ though...
2007-03-06 16:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u have to undergo liposuction??
i think ur bf should accpet who u are...
if u want 2 be thin then do it in the natural way..like diet or exercise...
2007-03-06 16:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by shekatot09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not marry that guy is the main thing. Don't change so he will marry you. Lipo is dangerous. Don't do it. Believe me. You will regret it. If all he wants is arm candy you can do better.
2007-03-06 16:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by Debbie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married...he isn't happy with the way you are. You don't want to spend the rest of your life with someone who thinks you should change, he should already love you the way you are...
2007-03-06 17:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok excuse me but if your boyfriend wants you to change your body then why are you still with him. in my opinion if he really loved you he wouldnt ask of this. why dont you just try talking to him and if that doesn't work leave. if someone loves you then they would NEVER EVER say that about your body. if your fat or skinny, tall or thin you can be perfect in many ways!!!!
2007-03-06 17:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by bratifa_2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then either diet or get the lipo, if your egaged this means you new is was shallow so if you love him and you know how he is then do it i guess...personaly i would never let a guy tell me to get lipo then become mad if i dont...thats not the kinda man i would want
2007-03-06 16:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by CRAZY 8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you leave him, NOW and you go on with your life and find a man who appreciates you like the one I have. Trust me I've been there and he's not worth it and that's why he makes you feel as if YOU're not worth it.
Put on some high heels and find yourself a real man!
2007-03-06 16:59:18 · answer #11 · answered by pinkoink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋