You may have noticed that I submitted the same artical twice... I didn't know how to edit and so consequently, it appears two times but with different question titles. I'm sorry about that.
I used the word "fire" when describing a scenerio for which I've terminated my best friends' role as bride maids. The word was the best to fit for how I see it. As far as how would I like it if something like that had happened to me... well, it has happened once. No, I didn't like it but the friend who had fired me was justified to have done so. I couldn't "get it together".
What does that mean someone asked... "get it together". Have your wits about yourself and some tactfulness... professionalism. Don't misrepresent the bride by misrepresenting yourself. If you aren't a b**ch, don't act like one.
And also the word "use". Meaning that they were available for the occassion... not whatever you had thought I assure you.
I'm sorry not to have explained better, sooner
2007-03-06 08:45:16 · 4 answers · asked by doormouse72 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I just read the posts you were talking about.
You have every right to make them guests instead of brides maids.
They should have made more of an effort to get along. Its your wedding day and they should have been showing you more respect by getting along. It's a great honor to be asked to be a brides maid and those silly girls just ruined it.
There is no need to apologize. I don't know you but my heart goes out to you. (from Australia) So you know from here down under someone cares about how you feel and Hope you have a magically wonderful wedding day.
2007-03-06 09:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's your wedding, so you get to make that call. no one can challenge you or blame you....if there is something going on that isn't working out then you have to do what you think is right.
it may cost you a dear friend but if that is your decision then just explain and move forward.
you can tell her what happened to you and if she understands great, if she doesn't then hey move on, you've got a new hubby waiting and you two will be the most important thing in each others lives for a long long time so that is what is most important.
Good Luck and Congratulations! ;-)))
2007-03-06 16:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by rooster2381 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your still a bridezilla! and if its happened to you then why would you turn around and do it back? that doesnt make it right either. sounds like you definitly need to get it together if you going to sit here and pick apart everyones answers. dont ask questions you dont want the answer to.
you seriously need to talk to your bridal party about how you feel.
2007-03-06 16:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by Awesome Rockin Mom 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
nobody cares! if you dont like what people have to say then dont post here!
2007-03-06 21:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋