2007-03-06 08:41:38 · 12 answers · asked by buttertoastklr13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Interesting that you like someone who you think is gay...would that mean you would be attracted to a woman....or are you interested in him in only physical looks not the type of person he is ? Try this just ask him what kind of person he likes in a relationship. When he answers you should be able to get an idea. If not just look puzzled and say " is that a man or woman you are describing ? " See what happens. People can reveal things to you if asked casually without notice sometimes. I had a friend who was interested in getting a boob job and she mentioned a woman she saw at the gym and said hers were the shape and size she was interested in having but she was afraid to just come out and ask the girl if hers were fake. I told her to casually say to the girl, " I wish I had boobs like yours " jokingly. She did and the girl said " best $4000 dollars I ever spent". Worked out well. So just be casual and make it seem you were not questioning his manhood or lack of and if you were wrong about him being gay you just killed two birds with one stone. You found out he was not gay and if you are the kind of woman he likes. If he describes a woman all you have to do is say, well that sounds just like me, see what transpires.
Good Luck.
2007-03-06 09:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by D'Artagnan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask some of his friends (that will be serious and tell the truth) or people who know him, maybe even an ex-girl or boyfriend, depending on if he is gay. or you could ask HIM, but i don't think you would wanna do that...right?
2007-03-06 16:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by ♥αηηα♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is difficult, but one way would be if he never asks you out. He hangs out only with a few male friends, that you never see him with a girl and that if you go out, he acts disinterested. He'll let you know don't worry.
2007-03-06 16:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could ask him! He will say yes and you will know, or he will say no and you may be rejected or accepted... Either way you are setting yourself up. These are the only two things that will happen. Be prepared for either.
2007-03-06 16:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Che K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your business unless he shares that information with you. Sorry. Looks like you'll have to keep wondering.
2007-03-06 16:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by SavageLettuce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flash him...if he gets excited he's straight if he acts ninterested he's gay.
2007-03-06 16:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask someone with gaydar. Does he accessorize?
2007-03-06 16:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him,if he's really gay........he'll tell a girl.
2007-03-06 16:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by 1st Responder FF/EMT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is...Or ask him out...Then he'll tell you if he is or not...Good luck.
2007-03-06 16:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by Future Mrs. Hamlet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chic you should spy on him
2007-03-06 16:45:22 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋