I have been musing this idea. All guys are basically mean. In my experience, if you find a kind, sensitive one, they are always unattractive. Any attractive guys treat girls really badly. I think guys are only nice when they have to be... and if they could, they would treat girls like crap. Anybody with evidence to the contrary? Any attractive, intelligent and sensitive, sweet (non-gay) guys in the world?
2007-03-06 08:37:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A good , looking, intelligent guy who has power to treat girls and others badly will normally do so, right? or cheat on their girlfriends or something? Once they have power, they use it, even if they were given this power by lucky genes.
2007-03-06 08:38:21 · update #1
In answer to the respect question... shouldnt guys give girls respect even if they dont demand it, just as a matter of course?
2007-03-06 08:41:48 · update #2
Although other people say all pretty girls are bitches :-)
2007-03-06 08:43:03 · update #3
Whatever happened to you does not make all guys bad or evil. Sometimes you get hurt, sometimes you hurt people back. This a natural response. Does not make it right though. I think that you should focus on loving yourself first... self love, respect, positive thought. All of these things will radiate from you and you will attract the same back.. Think like the way you do, you will continue to be a victim of your own experience.
2007-03-06 08:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Che K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
' How long have you mused this over? You kinda draw the line in the sand as far as guys go. So I guess the first question is how do you want to be treated? guess you know what your in for then.
The reason why unattracive men as you put are nicer is because they don't have their looks to carry them through life, and god forbid an accident happen to the pretty ppl. then they will be mean and ugly.
It sounds like your young so for that your excused, because if you have lived any you would have already known the answer to the question you asked.
Also keep in mind if your one of the pretty ppl, does that make you mean too?
Keep in mind theres always someone bigger better prettier rich than yourself, so you need to find the riches inside ppl. instead of worrying about whether their cute enough, because their may be some that don't except you because you don't measure up.
How would you feel to know or hear you don't make the grade. Your on a slippery slope, be careful.
2007-03-06 08:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong on all counts. I am an attractive guy and have never been mean to a woman, I believe all women should be treated like a queen unless they have proven themselves to not deserve the honor. Do not base your opinion on all men by your experiance with a few. Maybe it is just the type of guys you attracted or are attracted to.
2007-03-06 08:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all attractive guys are mean. A lot depends on their peer group and pehaps how they were raised. You want to me a nice, attractive, sexy, caring guy right? If so, then I think you need to leave the door to your heart open, if only a little. If you think all guys are mean, you may be closing your heart.
I can ASSURE you there are many attractive nice guys out there. Just be patient, open and treat others the way you want to be treated; that guy will come into your life one day.
2007-03-06 08:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there are tons of sensitive guys who are attractive and tons of mean guys. Me I think I'm attractive I guess after all I have a hot girlfriend and about hot girl firends in 7 months so yea and I am sensitive except sometimes I can be mean to girls I don't like. But girls I do like I'm nice to so I can get them on my good side and get them to like me.
2007-03-06 08:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by lsurocks1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boy like you are describing is not truly a man.
A real man respects his elders, for you will be treated the same as your man treats his momms.
A real man respects a woman's thoughts and actioins
A real man will hear your side of issues
A real man would never make a woman cry.......unless he's dead
Do you want me to continue?
2007-03-06 08:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagreee with you. I am an attractive, sensitive, intelligent (non-gay) guy and I treat every woman like a queen
2007-03-06 08:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by malcom1000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because girls throw themselves at good-looking guys which teaches these guys that girls have no self-respect and therefore need no respect?
2007-03-06 08:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by scruffy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am very nice but I never dated anyone. The nice ones are usally shy. I get shy alot. You sound pretty. How old are you. Never mine I'm 14
2007-03-06 08:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by afdsaffadsfafafa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 02:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by zoelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋