so the past couple of weeks, he has seemed distance, not a lot of calls and texts. and i do mention this to him, but he just says that hes "busy" bc he recently got a new dog and stuff. so yest was the first day we didnt talk AT ALL. i called him few times no answer. i texted and left a voicemail, no reply. still havnt heard from him today. what should i do? whats wrong with him? also, on sat we said our age diff is getting more and more apparent and that our diff lifestyles are becoming more apparent. weve been dating about 7 months. im 18, hes 25.
2007-03-06 08:36:15 · 7 answers · asked by sd_baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think there's one of several things going on here: He's found someone new and is afraid to hurt your feelings, so is just avoiding you; he really IS busy and just is trying to find time in his life to sleep and eat; he's lost interest in you. None of these has anything to do with you personally, its just the way things work out.
Instead of hounding him for attention, just let things lie. If it goes for a week without any communication, call him and say it's over.
If he calls back and says, "What do you mean? Over?" then say, "Look, you hardly pay any attention to me, and I'm sick of being your little puppy dog at your heals and having to track your down for the least bit of affection." Then take it from there.
And if he never calls back, there's your answer.
2007-03-06 08:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that he is enjoying the fact that you are young and naive. He may be withdrawing b/c he is pursuing a new love interest and just isn't straightforward enough to tell you directly. Some guys wants to ensure they have a new love interest in place before letting go of the former one. He sounds like a jerk to me. I really doubt the new animal has consumed all of his time, and if that were the case he should have no problem with involving you in the activities surrounding the new pet. Guys also have short attention spans and become bored easily. Don't let this guy play you--call him on his lack of attention the next time that you do converse. Tell him that you have many other options and aren't going to be taken for granted by him or anyone else. If he just shucks...leave it alone and walk away. Drama will not serve your own best interest. good luck
2007-03-06 16:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Stop being a stalker kiddo!. You only need to call once and leave a message - he will see it and either ignore or call you back. If some guy called me a few times then texted me and left a voicemail, I would figure the guy was loony and drop him.
As for the age difference - 18 and 25 is a huge difference. You haven't gone to college yet - He could be graduated and be established in a career.
You really need to let this guy find a girl his own age who won't bug him so much. You need to find a guy your age.
2007-03-06 16:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really apparent..let me give you one advice..No matter how busy a guy is if he loves you or cares about you..No matter what he will have time to pick up the phone and say "baby i'm busy" or text you something just to let you know they are there...He's obviously still immature..You're 25 there are a lot more fish in the sea..come on now reality check..Get a move on..dump his a**..Good luck!!!
2007-03-06 16:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by Future Mrs. Hamlet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. He's slowly leaving you in the past. Come on now look at what you just wrote its apparent that he's making lameass excuses not to get in touch with you. Guys are so stupid, I guarantee if you stop texting him and calling him he'll wonder whats up and get in contact with you. It's not right that he's trying to ditch you, i suggest you play him like he's playing you get a boy toy to take your mind off of that loser. (Try as much as possible not to call)
2007-03-06 16:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by Vanecia K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's too old for you, and has realized this. When you're 25, you're dealing with totally different things than when you're 18. Move on, date someone closer to your own age.
Christine right on--you must have read "He's just not that into you."
2007-03-06 16:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont get it.your boyfriend suddenly has a problem with your age difference.i think there is more to it.its either he wants to break up or he is going through some stuff right now and needs some space.u need to find out what is it.
2007-03-06 16:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by macy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋