been dating a guy for about a month. how often should i call? or how much is too much calling? i dont want to freak him out, or not give him the space he needs
2007-03-06 08:34:56 · 9 answers · asked by summerblue722 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends... i go on a "call as often as you are called" basis. if he calls you daily, then call him daily. if he calls you once a week, then call him once a week. this way, neither of you is doing more work.
2007-03-06 08:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by Haiti Cherie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends on what kind of person he is and the type of relationship you have. One couple I know works together, lives together, and, on the rare times they have to spend a day apart, call each other half a dozen times. They've been together for nearly six years and were like this from the very beginning. Another couple I know both travel a lot for work and don't live together, they regularly go over a week without even calling each other, but have been in a stable relationship for years. They did see more of each other and talk more for the first few months, though.
So, to answer your question, anywhere between once every two hours and once every two weeks, LOL. Seriously, call him when you want to talk, however often that is. If one of you needs a lot more or less space than the other it's not going to work anyway.
2007-03-06 08:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by Hope To The Horizon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call as often as you like. If he can't handle that amount he's not right for you. If he's willing to bring up the topic and tells you he cares about you but needs a little space respect his wishes and take it from there.
There are no right answers in dating. You have to find what works for both of you.
2007-03-06 08:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by actionfolksinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
identity take it as a compliment. he holds you in a a great way better regard than maximum 17 3 hundred and sixty 5 days olds. He calls you female possibly considering the fact which you have signs and indicators of adulthood that no longer many 17 3 hundred and sixty 5 days olds have. its candy, possibly he needs to be called a guy ;p
2016-09-30 07:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say about once a day... like you said, you don't want to freak him out. If he doesn't answer your call, leave a message and wait for him to call you back. You have to play it cool... don't ever seem needy- that is a sure way to push them away fast! Remember, guys want what they can't have... playing hard to get is a for sure way to reel him in!
2007-03-06 08:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf and I have been dating just over a month - if I don't call him he calls me every day. I really think it depends on who you are dating - everyone is different.
2007-03-06 08:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call when you feel there is a need to.
2007-03-06 08:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every two days, it works, that will make him call you!!!
2007-03-06 08:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by this is me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let him call you enless he says foor you to call him
2007-03-06 08:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by ~I Love Allen~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋