My girlfriend went out to eat ice cream yesterday, for leisure, with a group of guys (3) and a girl who isn't at all trustable. I told her it upsets me and she doesn't understand why. She says it wouldn't upset her, but I think it would. Can I have some help?
2007-03-06 08:34:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea if my man went out for "leisure" with another girl ..let alone 3 girls i wouldnt like the thought at all..i would tell him i didnt feel comfortable with him doing that and if he continued then he didnt care about my feelings but i wouldnt want to sound like his mom and tell him he couldnt do that...yea right they know if the tables were turned they wouldnt like it as well
2007-03-06 08:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, did u'r girl inform u that she is going out with this guys & girl? if yes, what did u do? say yes @ no? did u insist on going out together with her? if u just say yes & never try to stop her @ explain why it would upset u, then u should not get angry @ upset with u'r girl later. sometimes she just need a little bit space for herself :)
2007-03-06 16:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by ugly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't bother me as long as he was being upfront about his whereabouts. However, if it is with someone who is clearly interested in him, I would be uncomfortable with them being alone but not if they are going out as a group.
2007-03-06 16:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by luvlyeyes26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not like she went out with one guy to get dinner. Obviously you dont trust her and thats why she is upset. Do it to her and see if she trusts you.
2007-03-06 16:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being insecure, she is still a person with wants/needs that you obviously cannot fullfill all of. Its perfectly normal for her to want to have fun with others and if your not there...deal with it!
2007-03-06 16:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋