My boyfriend & I were been together for 6 months after he break up with his girlfriend. Both of us in Ireland and his ex-girl in singapore. His ex-girl is such a maniac (swallow 20 pills at once & been admitted + threaten to kill herself if my boyfriend leave her).My boyfriend feel sympathy for her and try to calm her. At first I was ok about that but then, I'd feel jealous after read loves text between them. My boyfriend explain that he doesn't have any feeling for her ex but he tried to explain slowly to her ex that he already have a girlfriend. I can't see that happens as I think that he still giving hopes to his ex.I can't treat my boyfriend rationally now coz I kept thinking about the text & phone call.But he always comfort me & convince me that he loves me a lot and have no feeling for his ex. What should I do? Should I leave my boyfriend and move on or stay on with him and advice him to ignore his maniac ex-girlfriend.
2007-03-06 08:31:02 · 11 answers · asked by hani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never be jealous of someone was there before u...if he was in love with her he wouldn't have loved u dont worry about it
besides if he show u the txt and told u about phones then he really doesn't have any bad intentions about it he is not going back to her be sure that he loves u ...dont show that u r jealous because then he will start hiding it from u to avoid problems that might happen just be cool about it and try to gradually get him of the subject it takes time 6 months are not enough its obvious that he is sensitive so it needs time just support him and u'll win him dont worry
win a part...and with time if u are good and u really love him u will win it all.
good luck
2007-03-06 08:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by dimaabdin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in his position before and it sucks. He is either really trying to not hurt her or he's playing you both. You need to decide which one you think it is and act accordingly.
If you think he is truely trying to help her then you need to make sure that he does tell her that he will be a friend but that any romantic notions she may have are out. He needs to be firm because believe it or not he is not helping her, he is only making the inevitable worse.
The worse case is that he is just with you until he can be with her or with you and her at the same time with no intentions of ever letting her go.
Either way you need to give him an ultimatum, it's you or her.
2007-03-06 08:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I like the fact that you are giving him the benefit of the dought. You must have strong feelings for him. In my opinion, it just sounds like you guys need something to remind the two of you how much you guys love eachother. But if you are being stressed everyday, then girlfriend, you know what you -GOT-to do to keep yourself positive for the next man. Be careful
2007-03-06 08:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would..i mean come on BROKE UP he's not her babysitter..she should have friends and family to do that for her..And if he cares soooooooo much then let him get back with her..give him the boot...you deserve someone better
2007-03-06 08:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by Future Mrs. Hamlet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say kick his but2 the curb wouldnt trust him sounds like hes playing u
2007-03-06 08:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're done with him until he breaks it off for good. He is stringing you (and her) along and isn't being honest to either of you.
2007-03-06 08:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound cold hearted but if he has no feelings he would stop talking to her
2007-03-06 08:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by mosalino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because u r the one he wit she aint nuthen but a side line hoe
2007-03-06 08:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, if him and his ex are doing love txts then he either doesnt want you n e more or he wants his ex back
2007-03-06 08:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by rAiNbOw Wh0r3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the dude... you need someone that pays attention to you and not other girls.... he might even go nuts on you... get out while you have a reason....
2007-03-06 08:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by CoLLEgE dUdE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋