have anybody felt like u are not wanted.like your friend is not telling you everything.like they tell u stuff,but not as much as u tell them.like they be leaving u behind wit stuff
2007-03-06 08:26:44 · 32 answers · asked by personaltiyqueen92 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetie that is with anyone. You should never give of yourself too much. Look what my grandmother said is never give all your trust, heart, or money to anyone. You will be the one being screwed in the end! GOOD LUCK
2007-03-07 06:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by raquelita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When making and having friends, sometimes you don't quite get the full benefit that you were hoping for, If you friend is telling only have to stuff that she is telling everyone else then it seems that she is mis-communicating about what is going on and you only get half the story instead of a full story. Then you have baggage that they are leaving you with and that is not fair when having a friendship things should be equal and no one should be left out, if you think that your friend is being unfair to you then you need to talk to and ask her why she is only giving you half of what she is giving everyone else and leaving you with extra baggage, having a friendship means you have to be honest reguardless of feelings even though you take those into consideration. Just tell your friend that you don't like what is going on straight and would appreciate it if she would be completely upfront with you and if she can't then she is not a real friend to you.
2007-03-06 08:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I have a friend that doesn't balance out our relationship at all. He takes much more and that includes information and such. It's hard to admit that sometimes there are unequal relationships that are friendships (completely platonic) in which they are unbalanced. Ask yourself? Do I want to be friends with someone who isn't willing to be as honest and candid as I am with them. I say friendships are more important than some person you are dating. Friends are the ones that are there for you and don't care if you're giving them sex or not.
2007-03-06 08:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by Pariglow03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that were to happen I wouldn't consider these people my friends (which did at one point). The reason is because I would feel like I couldn't trust them and that's a big no no. I fear rejection so I avoid these situations altogether.That's why I remain solo.
2007-03-06 08:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you had a discussion with your friend concerning your feelings? Everything is not always the way it seems. I think you need to have an open and honest discussion with your friend and tell him how you feel. I am assuming you are speaking about your boy friend???? Makes no sense to be involved with someone with whom you feel does not want you.
2007-03-06 08:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you my twin? I feel like that every day. My 'friends' always not tell me stuff and they dont want me a part of anything. I feel left out. For example, they started a band and wouldn't tell me about it. And after i joined one of my friends said i wasn't punk enough for it so she kicked me out. She is way less punk then me. I mean she listens to Hannah Montana and wheres vertical stripes with horizontal stripes. What i dont understand is why they wouldn't tell me about it and want me in the band. I feel sad and alone everyday.
2007-03-06 08:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have felt this way before...but in the end i had to end the friendship because it turned out to be not just the lack of disclosing things that were going on in their life but the lack of telling me because they didnt want to hear an opinion that maybe some of the things they were doing were not really in their best interest...some people dont tell certain friends things because they dont want truthful responses...in my opinion you have friends that serve certain purposes but when you stop valuing opinions and feedback even if its not what you want to hear there is nothing saving it.
2007-03-06 08:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by LeiMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is something many people deal with... i have always felt that my friends often talk behind my back with not facts to prove it... there is an underlying problem that is manifested here... you could have security issues or lack of trust... not that you don't trust your friends but somewhere in your past you might have had issues with trust and now it is surfacing in the manner... it is OK... your friends like you for who you are... don't worry about it ... it is a normal experience...
2007-03-06 08:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by metalli_catz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my friend is very secretive. He thinks that me knowing his phone number, and where he lives is a stalker behavior when most friends know that stuff about their friends.
He just makes me feel bad sometimes when he acts as if he can't talk to me, especially when he sounds depressed. It's really hard on me.
2007-03-06 08:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is how you feel about your friends then you need to find new ones! I have had "friends" like this but thankfully I don't anymore. Meet new people and make new friends that are real friends b/c anyone that treats you like that is NOT a friend!
2007-03-06 08:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by ChristinaN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋