what do you think of this???

Question

What do you think of this?
OK, this is about a couple of my friends......
Laura and Kari have been best friends since kindergarten.
Kari has a Boyfriend, Josh.
Laura and Josh flirt, a lot.
Kari doesnt really realize it.
Josh wants to go out with Laura.
Laura wants to go out with Josh.
Kari sometimes feel strange about her relationship with Josh, and has consitered breaking up with him numerous times but not because of the flirting (because she doesnt know about it).
Laura is really confused, doesnt know how to stop fliriting and has no idea what she wants.
Josh is oblivious to both Kari and Laura's feelings.
Now Laura is asking for advise, and I don't know what to tell her. Please help me so I can help Laura!!! Thanks!!
OXOXOXO
Babara<3

lol, I know it is kinda confusing, just by the way I set it up---- sorry guys.

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Answer 1

i was in a love triangle also before..

i had a bf and i was madly flirting with the best friend of my bf. he badly wanted me too. but we couldn't really do anything about it. and the more restrained we were, the more passionate our flirting became. it was like an underground conspiracy. which ended up very unpleasantly. bottom line is, we all got hurt us three and all the relatiosnhips were destroyed.

however, 2 yrs later (now), i am actually dating the "bestfriend". but one thing i can tell you right now, we have a friendship that we can both count on but relationship-wise, there's just so much insecurities for we both feel so evil, thinking about the possibilities of us crossing the borders once again.

I would so not recommend, but i can't stop anybody for doing what they would like to do...

just hope they make the right choice of looking for love elsewhere. advice laura to just keep it as good memories.

Answer 2

Tell Laura to stay away from Josh. He is bad news. She will get hurt in the end. All Josh is looking for is some sex. He thinks that because of all that flirting that Laura "wants" it. I do not think she wants it, she just does it for fun. Josh just doesn't get it.

Poor Kari. She wants to break up badly? Then that tells Laura something about Josh. As a good friend, you, Barb, should tell Laura to cool it with Josh.

Answer 3

Tell her to talk to him and to Kari. Tell him to stop flirting and tell Kari that he has been flirting with her. He does not deserve any of them.

Answer 4

stay out of it!
there are already too many people involved
let them solve their own problems

Answer 5

wow, just wow, tell her to just jump in a ditch and die. that should solve everything

Answer 6

I Don't know.

Answer 7

huh???