If you love someone but are not sure that wheather they love you or not what should you do to find out
2007-03-06 08:12:12 · 22 answers · asked by shere 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask them, talk to them about it
2007-03-06 08:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you love someone it takes time to find out if they love you too. Be patient. Talk with the person about things that mean something to you. Encourage them to talk about what is important to them. Ask them what their dreams of the future hold. When they tell you, can you see yourself being part of that future. Finally there is no way to tell for certain. Even if someone says they love you today, tomarrow they could feel differently. Sometimes you just have to take a chance. I do not know who it was, but someone once said " It is better to have loved & lost than never to have loved at all."
Good luck
2007-03-06 08:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by Stormy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to them about it. Don't let them go to find out. I told my now ex that I loved him and he didn't love me at the time. He grew to love me however. We still talk and love each other, just differently now. I never would have known if I hadn't asked straight up and I am really shy.
Whatever you do, don't let them go to find out. Yes, there is a saying that "If you love them, let them go and if they come back that it's meant to be". I don't think it was meant in the sense that if you're trying to find out if someone loves you, then you should dump them. I think meant more or less that if something at the time is off in the relationship, then to do that.
2007-03-06 08:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by prttylilrebel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give it some time. I think that when someone loves you, you'll know. Don't forget the good ole saying....actions speak louder than words. I wouldn't ask, he may say yes out of nervousness or so not to disappoint you. Better signs of love are him wanting to spend time with you, doing special things for you, respecting you and your family, etc. Good luck to you
2007-03-06 08:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is difficult because you might put off the loved one. The only way is to take a chance and talk
2007-03-06 08:18:36 · answer #5 · answered by simon m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love someone tell them to many times people lose the person that they love i have lost people i love. so like i said tell them you love them then you will find out if they love you back. You will be able to tell because if they love you they will say it back and if they dont.....
2007-03-06 08:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by nikki marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you mean actually LOVE you or just fancy you? its a totally different thing. If you're in a relationship with someone, I think you'd know whether or not they loved you, apart from which they'd probably have told you!
2007-03-06 08:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by G*I*M*P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to tell by the way he/she is when you are together. Out on a date, watching tv, walking on the beach, with your friends. It must show.
2007-03-06 08:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them out the worst they can say is no. And wouldn't it be great if they said yes. You will never know if you do not ask
2007-03-06 08:16:22 · answer #9 · answered by Smurf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him hw he feels about u
the sooner the better no point in stayin in a relationship where u like the person more than they like u
2007-03-07 07:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by jackie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur quite a shy person and dont want 2 get imbarresed you could text them and find out
2007-03-06 08:17:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋