everyone's asking these questions about " Is my ex over me, does he still care about me? does he think about me?" Why worry about it if you were broken up in the first place, move on
2007-03-06 08:06:29 · 27 answers · asked by cloud10muzik 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is pride, in a way. People want to know that they meant something in the life of a past lover. They hope they were hard to get over and many hope that there is still a spark of the love they shared still alive, even if it didn't work out in the long run.
That or they are lonesome and think maybe I can go back - but of course we all know we can never go back.
Peace!
2007-03-06 08:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When 2 people split, there's a void left- Attention and care they were getting isn't there anymore, and that can be hard for anyone. It makes a person feel better to think that maybe a part of them is still loved and cared for by their now-ex significant other. Also, a break-up indicates forever, never being with that person again, the good and the bad. An ending can be painful, and sometimes it's hard for someone to let go, so they make themselves feel better by convincing themelves that in some small way, it isn't really over.
2007-03-06 16:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm you guys are missing the point. The people asking this question are people who in a way still care/love the ex. They want to know if they ever meant something to that ex and if somehow they are missed. It is NOT as simple as "moving on" or "getting over him/her". Geez have any of you ever been broken up with??? LOL just wait until it happens to you and then lets see if you still think the same way...
2007-03-06 16:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by EV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess when one person leaves the relationship (for whatever reason) the other person sometimes didn't have a clue this was coming...so it is a major upset*. That other person has moved on...and ppl say you should do the same, but it's easier said than done as your hearts been ripped out.........and you don't have a proper closure of ending the relationship*
Guess you've always been the person to MOVE ON* leaving someone else in the dust to pick it up and move on* I hope YOU never have to experience that kind of heart ache.......if you do...think back to this question....and Try to move on*
2007-03-06 16:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's curiosity. Sure, I'd like to know that my ex is suffering from sleep deprivation scheming of ways to get me back....but the truth is.....they're an ex for a reason. It's a fact of maturity knowing that the games involved in dating are ridiculous. Wanting to know your ex's feelings is a stupid head game- people that wonder this aren't mature enough to be dating and shouldn't date.
2007-03-06 16:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by bored_in_city 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't want to know as if he is and you aren't over him then you will get hurt all over again...
Just move on, and try not to think about him anymore, even though it is hard.
My ex just recently got engaged, and it hurt me because we were together for almost 8 years and had no engagement at all, and he has only known this girl for several months...
2007-03-06 16:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jasmina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always figured that most people want to have the higher hand...
Like when there is a bad breakup or divorce, usually they try to sue or whatever and get whatever they can out of it... just so that the other one doesnt get it...
I hate my ex... she started talking trash about me behind my back...a nd so i confronted her about it and she denied everything...
she didnt even have the guts to fess up to it... if she would have, i might have still liked her...
oh well...
2007-03-06 16:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that is so true!! i think they think about that be cuz deep down in side they still care for them! and they just dont want to show it unless the other person feels the same!!! but i dont get way they broke up in the first place! people are just weird this days!! lol!
2007-03-06 16:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you been with some1, how they feel is still a concern. When I ask that question, it's mainly because I really don't want them to forget about me, I want them to miss me because they weren't doing right, but also because in some ways I still care.
2007-03-06 16:11:14 · answer #9 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because maybe they aren't over the ex yet and holding out hope the ex will want them back especially if they haven't found someone else and the ex has
2007-03-06 16:10:07 · answer #10 · answered by moglie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋