She pushes me away every time I just try and make simple conversation. Maybe I'm afraid what her response will be. She supposedly broke up with me because she was stressed with the start of school and stuff. This was 7 months ago. I dont want to love her but i cant help it. And she always has our friends around her so its akward and if she is alone i'm to nervous.
2007-03-06 08:04:15 · 15 answers · asked by heythere! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you still aren't together, try to distance yourself. I'm sure she cares for you....but coming from a girl, I have used school as an excuse to break up with someone. She wants to play the field and see if anything better is out there. When she's done doing that, she knows she can come back to you. You deserve a girl who isn't going to do that. You should distance yourself and time will eventually tell you what to do.
2007-03-06 08:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by bored_in_city 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry I have to be the one to tell you this but...it is time for you to move on. It is obvious that your ex is trying to do just that. Maybe you don't recognize her attempts because they are "non-verbal" ones but she is telling you by "pushing" you away. When people no longer want to be in a relationship sometimes it's easier to use excuses like school and stuff than come right out and tell them they don't love them anymore. Think about this...Could that have been what your ex did?
She knows you still love her. You're telegraphing that to her everytime she sees you. She is not and will not be responding to it. Before she gets really upset and tells you you're stalking her just let her go. Maybe, and this is just a maybe...if you start acting normally around her and her friends she might remember why she liked you in the first place...and you might be able to salvage a friendship out of this. I don't think that is in your near future though so give her and you a break. Back off.
2007-03-06 08:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probable don't want to hear this but in this type of situation it's best to just move on. I've been there myself unfortunately and it hurts. But if she broke up with you and she is still not showing and interest then its time you start looking for other options. Turn your interests to another girl and I'm sure you'll be surprised at how a new relationship can help heal a broken heart.
In the mean time I'd put a little distance between her and yourself. Everyone deserves to be with someone who wants them more than anything; if she's not going to be that someone, you're just hindering the possibilities of a new relationship to form in your life.
I had someone break my heart but if that hadn't happened I wouldn't have met the one I'm with now, who's the love of my life. Something better always comes along :)
2007-03-06 08:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by TuoTuo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, if she's pushing you away, she's no longer into you. Try to move on...especially after 7 months. It may sound hard, but it will be for the best. You're stuck on her because you're not doing anything to change it. Get out of your rut.
Heck, if she sees you lost interest or are hanging out with another girl she may try to come back. Jr High/High school girls play stupid head games like that.
2007-03-06 08:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
From my unexpierenced point of view, I would advise that you should realize that it will be difficult to tell her, but just tell her the truth. Do not sugar coat or distort. It sounds like the truth is powerful enough in this circumstance.
If she does not feel the same way, you will be better hearing this and moving on rather than living in a false state of wonder. But like I said, I am unexperienced in this exact realm.
In any case: Good luck.
2007-03-06 08:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by J. Blake 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Admit to her that you had made a mistake and you want to go back and make it up. Make her feel better than when you were going out because that will probably signal to her that you have changed.
2007-03-06 08:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by GT-R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is sending all kinds of signs that she doesn't want to be involved with you anymore. I know that hurts, but you need to stop punishing yourself and move on and accept the inevitable.
2007-03-06 08:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
move on, explore ur environment and if after a year of being away u still feel the same, find a way to let her know how u feel.
2007-03-06 08:08:28 · answer #8 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her how you feel. You can write her a letter, a text, or an email. If you don't tell ASAP, you might miss your opportunity.
2007-03-06 08:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by T 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
simple, use your eyes to spot her, then position your body in her posistion, then move the legs in a walking motion towards her, stop in front of her, open your mouth and say "i still love you"
2007-03-06 10:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by keir 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋