my exb/f of 2 years&i broke up over a month ago, and i am still not over him. instantly after the break up he began going from girl to girl, 4 girls in 4 weeks to be specific, i have been out on 1 or 2 dates since the break up but nothing more than that. we havn't talked to each other in weeks, and he randomly blocked me on IM, which is really weird.it seems as if he is trying2do things just2get my attention or2get me2say something2him.&he unblocked me just2look@the pictures in my profile(even tho hes already looked@those same ones twice already,& he doesnt kno i can see he looks@them),then he blocked me again so i wouldnt kno he unblocked me i guess?&then he IMed my twin sister(who he was also very close w. but not nemore since the breakup)&old her how he misses her?just a few days ago he unblocked me&he looked@my pics the sec.i put an away msg up.it seems like hes going OUT OF HIS WAY 2 try&hurt me,which makes me wonder is he over me, or is he just trying2get me2think hes over me?
2007-03-06 07:59:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dosen't sound to me like he is over you at all. Sounds like there is hope and you two should try and sit down and talk...I hope it works out for you :-)
2007-03-06 08:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by swiss girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like he is playing a mind game with you and to make it worse he has put your twin sister in it. If he really wanted to be with you then he would be with you and not give the run around of whether he still has feelings for you and would not play any mind games to make you think that he is up to something, but whatever it is it will not work for long and he broke up with you so he needs to move on with his life instead of going back every time to look at pictures of you, It seems that you don't want him back and that is good, just keep doing what you are doing and after awhile he will get the message and leave you alone as he will get tired of the serade that he pulling. He knows what he is doing and he refuses to realize and this thing with him is not going to do him any good.
2007-03-06 16:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two years of your life is a long time to spend with one person, and it is often hard for people to show their emotions when it ends up in a break up. Im sure he still has feelings for you, asfeelings for a person just dont disappear. He might be at a stage in his life where there is confusion, or perhaps he just is not IN LOVE with you. This does NOT mean that he does not love or care about you and he probably does miss you as a friend thats why he is looking at your photos, and perhaps he is blocking you as it may hurt him to much to be around you. Love is weird, I had a similar situation when I was 17, I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years, I just fell out of love with him, he treated me like a princess, and I ended up treating him like **** because it was easier than dealing with the hurt. I have not spoke to him in over 7 years and to this day although now I am happily married with children, i class him as one of my best friends, and someone who knows me better than anyone, I miss him and hope you and your ex can still stay friends, perhaps you can write him a letter and sort your friendship out. Good Luck.
2007-03-06 16:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by han83b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After you break up with someone the idea is to MOVE ON not spend the rest of your life wondering if he is "over you". You should be trying to get to the point of "who cares what the heck he's doing".
The dude is done. So, your best bet is to have a "so what" attitude about what he does and get on with your life and guess what ? your Mr Right is out there waiting for you to get your shyt together. So, hurry up and get over this jerk so that you can live happily ever after :)
2007-03-06 16:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You didn't give an age (so maybe you're not where I am YET), but here goes...
First of all -- you are giving this too much thought.
Secondly -- spend some time by yourself (meaning NO DATES) and just get to know "who you are" and "what you want". This is the time FOR YOU!
Thirdly - "If" he's really over you then, it will show, "If" he's not, then it will show.
KEEP IT MOVING HONEY -- HE BROKE UP WITH YOU.
2007-03-06 16:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by Tweety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go out to dinner with me and see if he gets upset.
2007-03-06 16:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by Bill 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋