Me and this guy have liked each other for ages but neither of us says anything directly. He pays loads of nice compliments. He knows that I am leaving my boyfriend and I confide in him about it. He keeps asking if I'm ready for a new relationship and if he's definately an ex now. He really made a big thing of asking this and his eyes were staring into mine the whole time. I feli a bit like I was being interrogated by the police! Well after that he was very flirty and Iovely. He knows I've had a bad time with men treating me badly and illnesses and he is always there to support me. I always tell him hes lovely but I am scared to say how I feel. Is he telling me how he feels subtley or what? Am i thick and not picking up on these signals? Shall I ask him about the interrogation(!) and see if he open up? Please advise me it's driving me mad!!
2007-03-06 07:56:45 · 2 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all take a deep breath. dont over think it. sometimes the most complicated and foggy problems are the simplest. now think. how will he know that you like him? does someone else tell him? does he find out on his own? or do you tell him yourself? i think you shouls just tell him that you need to tell him something important but it cant be around people. just ask him to go out wiith you to movies or something like that and when you two have some privacy, just tell him how you feel. There isnt another way for him to find out
2007-03-06 08:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by starstatus586 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...let the dust settle down and in on ya honey! You wanna be thinking clearheaded here darling...so take your time in deciding stuff assuredly. the "Interrogation" word here doesn't sound pleasant to me darling...do you have another word you could use to describe the conversation maybe? Maybe you should be gone from your soon to be ex-boyfriend for awhile before you decide anything here hun?...it's not a bad idea to let go of one relationship before you start feeding another one. Too much crap carries over from the last one...to screw up the next one possibly...wouldn't you think?
2007-03-06 16:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋