I have heard it said several times that you don't fall in love with them so much when you are with them but when you are not with them.
It's that you miss the feeling you get when you are around them and that's when you actually fall in love with them.
2007-03-06 07:55:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
true.
its like the saying... you dont know what you really have until you lose it.
you miss it, so u love it more.
2007-03-06 07:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definately!
I mean... I did fall in love with my bf when I was with him at first of course, but after awhile you get used to the other person and it's just kind of routine.. everything you do.
during christmas time I was away from him for a month though, and that month made me realize how much I actually love him and how much I want to be with him, and how much I appreciate him being in my life!
So, I would definately recommend people whose relationship has become sort of a routine, to take a tiny break and see if the person you are with is really who you want to be with.. because if they are, you're gonna be so much more appreciative in the relationship and work harder for it!
2007-03-06 16:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by helloworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a great question. Yes I have totally found this to be true.
The first guy ever dated, it was fun when I was with him, but I forgot about him when we werent together.
He loved me, I didnt love him.
Second long term boyfriend. I would ache, pine, becoem glum and sad without him around.
Then when I got to know him better and we were apart little things would remind me of him and mae me want to be near him.
Its areally good measure for feelings.
2007-03-06 16:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by TigerRose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mother always says to stop searching for the man that you can live with thats not love search for the man you can't live without baascially use it the other way around an i think thats your answer
2007-03-06 16:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that really true. Because me and boyfriend are in different places and we was in love before he left. It was hard to let him go because I love him with all my heart.
2007-03-06 16:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by Angel_08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me it's like, when I'm not with her I miss her too much. When I'm with her talking or going out. I don't feel anything. Thats similar to what ppl said "one you can't live without", (and you can't live with :)) paradox! )
2007-03-06 16:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by Sally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldnt say that u always no when u love someone even when ur with them or not maybe u feel it more when ur not with them cause u miss them
2007-03-06 16:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by minnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true to the last word buddy!!
2007-03-06 15:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by §wëet @ heãrt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋