Only time will fix this. You probably feel empty or asking yourself why right now. It will get better, just stay focused on your own interests so that you are not only thinking about that person.
Hope it all goes well for you in the future.
If its your best friend, wow, i have been in the exact situation. If you are strong enough to move on and still have this person close to you, ok, but if its too hard i think its better if you stopp seeing him for a while. The more you see him the more you ask yourself , why and what if, is ther a chance.
2007-03-06 07:51:32
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answered by Anonymous
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The best thing to do would be to just let it go and go out and have fun. Don't let the fact that you feel for someone who didnt fall head over heels for you make you think there is no hope for you. There are tons of good people out there that would love and cherish you just as you did you past love. The worst thing you could do is let yourself go.... this could come back and bite you in the rear when you do find true love. Just keep your head up and your heart in the game. It may take some time for that Mr. or Mrs Right to make is debut but it will happen.
2007-03-06 15:55:45
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answered by Toria 3
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I know it's hard because i have been there before but u have just let go find things 2 do 2 keep u busy try going places that u could meet people and keep praying 2 get over it that's what work 4 me good luck it gets easier
2007-03-06 15:50:32
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answered by netta 2
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Well, this unfortunately is a very common occurrence in one's life. These feelings you are having, you are probably going to run into again and again. There is no easy way to deal with them though...everyone has a different strategy. I would suggest that you first accept that the pain is going to be there and not try to fight it. Then, just keep yourself busy so you don't think about him all the time. Focus on other people, go out with friends, dedicate your energy to them and by all means, don't keep to yourself (cos you'll get depressed). In time, the pain will go away, I promise!
2007-03-06 15:46:35
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answered by Kat ? 4
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First mope around for a while, eat ice cream and chocolate, watch TV, etc. Then get back in the circle and start by going to bars or clubs and just flirting with people. Then start dating again. It takes a long time, but you'll get over them.
2007-03-06 15:43:26
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answered by ~Geeks Will Rule The World~ 3
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well for one, just get over the fact that things weren't meant to be (even tho trust me that incredibly hard to overcome) and just remember there are tons of ppl in the world so one day you will meet the love of your life! :]
also work on your goals in life, like careers, places you want to go to, and things you just want to accomplish in life! paying attention to that area of your life will keep you from feeling sad about the guy that didn't love you. good luck and have a great day! :]
2007-03-06 15:46:04
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answered by shorty 1
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Try your hardest not to think about them or contact them. Focus on improving yourself and find someone else. I just went through with this a couple of months ago. You'll feel much better after you realize you doing better things for your life. Soon enough, you'll meet someone that was better than the last. Trust me.
2007-03-06 15:45:58
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answered by Super Haitian 3
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This is hard. I don't think you ever truly get over someone you love. They will always be there and things will always remind you of them. That being said, you can learn to cope and deal without them. As corny as it sounds, time helps. As you get used to not being around them or talking with them it gets easier.
2007-03-06 15:43:13
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answered by Colleen 2
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I still havent gotten Over.
So Im Sorry,
but I cant Give You A good
Answer. =
-Vannia<3
2007-03-06 15:44:19
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answered by Anonymous
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Cry a lot. Wait for a long time. Be good to yourself. Stay open to a new love.
2007-03-06 15:43:37
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answered by *VS* 3
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