We have been dating for a year and 1/2. He says that he is not ready for a "relationship" however we dont date or mess around with anyone else. We both are committed to eachother. He is at my house 5 nights a week and Its not that we keep it a secret but he doesnt tell his friends how involved we are. Should I let it go or as long as we are happy dont rock the boat???
2007-03-06 07:35:37 · 3 answers · asked by bnelly05 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me pick out some key phrases in your posting to address. First of all you stated that "we are both committed to each other". Sorry honey, but he is not "committed", he is comfortable. Committed couples share that information freely with their friends. You also said "as long as we are happy"...if you were completely happy you wouldn't be questioning if your relationship were normal. If sounds as if you have good instincts if you will just listen to them. Where do you want this relationship to go? Marriage? If he's going to bolt if you want things to progress, then sorry, he's not the one for you.
2007-03-06 07:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by moosviews4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u jus let it go like this then ur gonna get hurt cuz he could jus go to any gurl and do anythin b/c he's not offically ur bf...dis gives way to u guys doin anythin u want and da other person gettin hurt b/c u guys arent goin out
2007-03-06 15:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him if it's bothering you.
2007-03-06 15:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋