ok my problem is i have really liked this guy for a while try 5 months. i found out that he likes my bff. we talk all the time. i have about 50 notes that we have talked 2 eachother. i dont know what to do cuz i still like him! !! and he doesnt like me im pretty sure. and he knows i like him. i fear that things will get weird between us because they used to be and i dont want that again. but what can i do to get him or to keep him my friend??
2007-03-06 07:31:17 · 17 answers · asked by RJlicious! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't try to get him. Just be a great friend. He may fall for the great friend later on.
2007-03-06 07:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have kinda the same problem. I, in my situation, am just going to continue to be friends with him and pretend that nothing has happened. I mean, he actually started going out with one of my best friends. I'm okay with that cause me and him have gone out before. But yeah. I'd say just being friends and eventually your feelings will fade. Just remember eventually is the KEY word. It might take awhile. I talk from experience.
2007-03-06 15:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by *..::Sky::..* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard but the best thing to do is just to talk to him. Tell him ur fine just being friends with him and if he truly likes u as a friend he'll want to be around u.
2007-03-06 15:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not enough that you find the guy desirable but he too should feel the same way about you- maybe more but in your case it's not the case so for your own peace of mind and self respect you should let him go and trust me they say that there are lot of fish in the ocean and they are right. Good luck.
2007-03-06 15:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow why do girsl care but anyway this wioll porbally be weird fo both of you so i don't know try to avoid probelms with you friend does she like him to then there will be big problems why dont girls like me i am pathetic enough to just answer random question sonline yeah
2007-03-06 15:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by Syvarris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him hook up with your friend Life is long and you never know right now it seems that you enjoy his freindship and you want to keep it that way soo don't mess it up by getting all up in it
2007-03-06 15:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you like him. I think you think you like him. But now that your best friend is in the picture, you don't want to share the attention. Why don't you just act like a best friend, support her, and move on?
2007-03-06 15:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by J-Dizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be cool about it. Encourage your bff and him to go out and have fun together. Don't act resentful about it.
2007-03-06 15:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by SHELLBELL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should tell him how you feel because holding your feeling for him inside is not good and if he turns you down thin skip him because i always no that when your not looking for a deceint guy thats when hes looking 4 you and he could be right under your noise!
2007-03-06 15:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him as a friend, don't let a guy come between you two
2007-03-06 15:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋