I am not my sister, I am myself and a very responsible adult. My sister is older and extremely controlling. My mom does not treat me bad or try to control me, my mom is very proud of me and my family. My sister tries to control my thoughts or way of life. I am not irresponsible, I am a very good caring person who makes great decisions in life. She can not stand it when I do not think the same way she do, and she hates it that I do not hold the exact same religious beliefs she holds. SHe does everything she can to control me. I am a free person in a free country able to think the way I want to. THe fact is I am so sick of being insulted and treated as if I am one of the most evil person in the world because I do not hold the strict religious ideals she holds. She is so mean and has been and I cannot take it anymore. I try to stand up for myself in the most mature way and in a nice way but she stills finds ways to put me down. What should I do?
2007-03-06 07:26:58 · 3 answers · asked by daisy322_98 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You must put toxic people out of your positive circle. That means always surround yourself with people who uplift you, and give constructive advise. The best way to handle her maturely, is to not handle her at all. Completely stop being around her. People don't seem to miss you or respect you until you're gone.
2007-03-06 07:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to put your foot down and let her know she can not and will not run your life. Let her know that until she can realize you're happy with exactly how you are that you don't want her around.People like that need to ignored and put off to the side because you'll end up stressed out and unhappy.
2007-03-06 15:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by Trisha G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just stop talking to her and tell her to get a life!!!!!!
2007-03-06 15:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by Nocurfew313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋