i want to tell him but i don't know how to say it, and i am ready to lose it but i need to tell him first
2007-03-06 07:13:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, in my opinion a healthy relationship depends on the truth. If you're really ready to lose your virginity you should tell him. Most guys like it when the girl is a virgin. But, if you're doing this just because all your friends did it; i wouldn't. I don't think it will matter to your boyfriend that he you're a virgin or not. But, then again you could just break it down to him gently...
However, I think virgins have more respect from everyone, because they're not just a rag that everyone uses. Keep your virginity for how long you can, and congratulations that you still have it at whatever age you are, because now girls are ruining themselves from age 14. I think you're on a good stage because you have your virginity. But then again, if you think that you want to lose it, you can. Everyone does nowadays.
2007-03-06 07:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations at whatever age you are, it is very noble to be a virgin. No you shouldn't tell him. Stay a virgin as long as you can. Depending on how old you are, your feelings could change and losing your virginity is a very sacred thing. You can't take it back. Make sure that this one time event is the most special thing you could ever do with someone you love very much. I'm not old fashioned enough to say wait until your married as most would, but at least make sure he is someone that you want to remember in this way. Don't let it be the wrong guy or someone who pressures you into making a mistake that will be with you forever. Your first time should be VERY memorable AND special and it takes alot of time to find that special someone who is going to look at it as special as you do. Don't rush it, there are plenty of guys out there who would be more than glad to oblige you with it, but hold out for the infamous Mr. Right!!
2007-03-06 07:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him..he will be very pleased, guys like it when a girl is a virgin.
2007-03-06 07:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make him a dinner with something sexy on and tell him Ur a virgin and maybe he will be happy causes of the dinner and how good u look just be honest
2007-03-06 07:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by lilquita_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dusnt realy matter if u r redy to lose it to him. but seeing as u want to tell him first u shud i dnt think it will effect the relationship if anything he may be more careing when it comes to the event.
2007-03-06 07:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. be perfectly honest with him. thats what a good relationships foundation is-honesty and openness. if he loves you he should care either way... he should be patient with you until your ready.
2007-03-06 07:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by sarah t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after you have sex with him tell him that you were a virgin but thanks to him youre not anymore.
2007-03-06 07:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if thats the truth,,,
2007-03-06 07:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL YEAH.... CALL HIM AND DO IT RIGHT NOW... PLEASE
2007-03-06 07:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by T.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋