I have a hug crush on this guy who seemed to care for me very much. However, he left to another country for a couple of months and he even told me, "don't forget about me". It's been two months and I wrote to him once and got no response. Yesterday all I found out was that he was very happy. I feel stupid for having this crush on him. He never cared and just played with my feelings. Why does this have to hurt so much?
2007-03-06 07:04:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I meant huge not hug... it's just that my head it's not on it's place.
2007-03-06 07:05:32 · update #1
"Ahh, the crush. Do you know why it's called a 'crush?' Because all too frequently that's how it ends... one is quite crushed because it seemed like there was something more, but in the end, it was just a crush..."
You are an intelligent, beautiful young woman, and with that knowledge you can have many, many more crushes... and, what's more, you have a shot at living life. Loving, sharing, hoarding, playing, laughing, all of the wonderful things that compose the seconds between our births and deaths - all of those things are standing right in front of you. You need not but take a step.
Young lady, it was a crush. Love freely, and not only will "someone" return that love, but multitudes of people will be touched by your heart and reciprocate that emotion. Friends, family, and more.
Good luck, and may your life be full of love and pain and everything that makes life worth living.
2007-03-06 07:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by vengerofthelight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about that guy because you can find someone who would write you back or call you to say i miss you i love you i want to be with you. If yo two were meant to be together then it would be. never know maybe you will someday just let life take its course and in the end good things will come your way dear.
2007-03-06 15:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by autumn_aka_slick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well being the a ss that i am i'd normally take this opritunity to make you feel worse hehe, but i'm feeling generous so yeah. sorry to hear that he played with your feelings like that, in all honesty i really think that is one of the worst things that someone can do to another person. but don't worry, you will find someone that'll treat you right and you'll be happier in the long run =)
2007-03-06 15:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Delia, go out and pamper yourself ! Get a pedicure, a manicure, get your hair done. You are worth it ! Forget him...the right one will come along. Everything happens for a reason....and this reason is because your soulmate is still out there ! You don't need this guy ! Perk up ! Smile !
2007-03-06 15:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Laneymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no how u feel
guys can be stupid and mess with your feelings but the important thing is to get up and move on because there's always gonna be someone better and if wasn't willing then he's not good enough for you
2007-03-06 15:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by lovin' it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u wanted to be with that guy so bad that u let him control ur life so i say go out and have fun with ur friends and find some 1 new who won't play with ur feelings.
2007-03-06 15:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE HURT SO MUCH BECAUSE YOU FELL FOR SOMEONE WHO WAS NOT SERIOUS AS YOU WAS. YOU HAVE TO GET BACK TO HAVING A CRUSH ON YOURSELF. FIND OUT WHO YOU ARE. IF U EVER NEED SOMEONE TO TAKE YOUR MIND OFF OF IT JUST EMAIL ME. djmiller2008@yahoo.com.
2007-03-06 15:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by masterdloski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts so much because life is tough and unpredictable unfortunately. im sorry your going through this hun, but when he comes back, spend as much time with him as you like... but in the mean time, jsut try to stay in touch with him as best you can...
-i hope this helped
2007-03-06 15:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by sarah t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would forget about him.... he obviosally was playing with ur emmotions..... sorry to break it to ya, girlfriend.... but cheer up!! there are other fish in the sea!!!
2007-03-06 15:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by BaByFaCe oo9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He played wid ur feelings then y u have to cry 4 such a ............
ITS HARD TO FORGET BUT NOT IMPOSIBLE!!
2007-03-06 15:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋