About 6 mths ago he and I dated for about 2 mths then he ended it. I went to a store to visit a friend who works there when he walked in. He didn't acknowledge me at first but a few mins later he came over to me, kissed me on the cheek and tried to give me a hug. It was pretty awkward. He went back to finish his purchase and I continued talking to my friend. A while later he came back and stood behind me then I felt him pressed up against me so I turned around, took his hand and invited him to have lunch with me, he said ok he would meet me at the store when it was time for him to have lunch and he went back to work. After he left my friend told me he came in a couple of times and twice he asked her about me. She didn't give him any info because she didn't know him, but she said he seemed like a really nice guy and she thinks he still has feelings for me. Her coworker also said the same thing. The thing is he never showed up for our lunch date. Does he still like me? I'm confused.
2007-03-06 07:03:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably wanted to get laid by someone and found someone else before lunchtime. If he ended it already once, don't let him get close enough to do it again. He got tired of you the first time, now he probably just misses what he doesn't have like everyone does.
2007-03-06 07:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Edub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Geezez hun...maybe he has a poor memory or something possibly...I don't know really. If I had a lunch date with a very beautiful woman?,...I'd be showing up early for crying out loud,...but then that's just me! He's kinda sorta seeming like the one who is confused sweety. Two confused people absolutely need to have some discussion here hun...wouldn't you think? He's been snooping around looking for you anyways...that's pretty cool!
2007-03-06 15:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he could still like you but perhaps he is just shy or unsure about his feelings for you. It could be that he is trying to decide if he wants to get into a relationship or not. On the down side, it could be he is in a relationship and is looking for something on the side and he was just trying to see if you were still intersted in him. Either way, he doesnt seem very reliable and he certainly isnt being respectful towards you by not showing up, I think you could probably do better.
2007-03-06 15:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, I'm cofused, too! Maybe u can ask him what's on his mind. It'd be fair enough if he told u what's going on, right?
I'm a guy (of course I'm older so I think different from younger guys, n I'm Mexican, so that's even worse cuz we're family oriented) but I much rather be straight forward with the girl I like even if I'm not 100% sure whether she likes me or not. I don't feel embarrassed or dumb if she says, "sorry, I don't feel the same way". I think he should tell u what's going on. If he doesn't tell u, stay away from him, he needs to grow up n mature, but let him learn away from u, or u'll end up with a broken heart.
2007-03-06 15:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by ironman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget him unless he comes to you and apologizes (with a legitimate reason, i wouldn't accept less than a death or personal injury.) there is no excuse for a man to miss a date he has asked a woman to. At this point, you shouldn't care if he still likes you; he stood you up.
2007-03-06 15:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by go2bermuda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN YOU GUYS WAS 2GETHER HE PROBABLY BECAME ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE ELSE THEN HIS FEELINGS FOR YOU CHANGED THEN WHEN HE SAW YOU OLD FEELINGS CAME BACK AND HE REACTED TO THEM BECAUSE HE PROBABLY DIDNT SEE YOU FOR A LONG TIME.... BUT ONCE YOU GUYS WAS SUPPOSED TO GO TO LUNCH HE PROBABLY HAD SOME TIME TO THINK AND CAME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT IT WOULD BE A MISTAKE TO ENGAGE IN ANYTHING WITH YOU EVEN SOMETHING AS SIMPLE AS LUNCH.... REMEMBER THAT YOU GUYS WASNT TOGETHER FOR VERY LONG AND DURING THAT TIME A RELATIONSHIP CANE BE VERY UNPREDICTABLE....
2007-03-06 15:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by T.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he seems like he likes you but if he didn't show up for lunch with you that shows that he stood you up. that isn't right. you don't do that to a girl believe me Iv'e done it to my girlfriend and she almost broke up with me for it. It seems like he likes you but if he didn't show chances are he is willing to break up with you.
2007-03-06 15:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by David M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a guy, I'm confused too, just ask him straight out what the deal is
2007-03-06 15:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure, but it sounds to me like hes playing with you. if i were you id get someone better. or you could just ask him if he still likes you.
2007-03-06 15:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by Gazza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it means he wants to skip the lunch and just take you to bed.
2007-03-06 15:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋