If you meet someone and from the start all you really do together is be intimate, I mean you do talk about the day or what not but nothing personal, is it possible to not ever get feelings for them. You you find them attractive and interesting.
2007-03-06 07:02:48 · 9 answers · asked by xyz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not that I dont want feelings or do but am wondering others have been there. I know that once you meet someone and you anything in common with them then there will be some level of feelings but like feelings that you can't live without them kind of thing.
2007-03-06 07:28:17 · update #1
You just answered your own question, but I,ll give it a go. Yes, it happens more than you think and there is nothing wrong with that, no strings attached no emotions if its over etc. Now, ask yourself this to make sure your questions has meaning behind it; If he died tomorrow, would you cry or feel terrible for not letting him know how you really felt? If your answer is yes then you have feeling for him. If not, than like I said at the beginning, "You already answered your own question".
Excellent Question!
Sincerely,
SuperDave
2007-03-06 07:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by SuperDave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it is not going to do you any good when it comes to future relationships. Being intimate without having "feelings" for the individual is just animal ilust. Animals have sex, but there are no feelings of attachment there, it is simply for breeding purposes.
There's something to be said about "keeping yourself sexually pure until marriage". That way, the feelings come first, followed by a commitment, which leads to marriage and an awesome love life. You should try it, you would like it!
2007-03-06 07:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by POOHBEAR 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Over a period of time, you'd eventually develop some kind of an affinity for the person, even if they weren't your ideal. I had an ex-GF that dated this guy quietly a couple of years ago who was just a 'friend' and assured me that she wasn't going to let it get any further than a kiss at the door and the occassional flowers...she married the guy 6 months ago!
2007-03-06 07:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i had a "bootycall" for 2 years and we never felt anything for one another it was strictly just intimacy without the bickering and drama. the only problem was that when i met someone i wanted to be with on a serious level he still wanted me to help him out. not cause he was jealous but because he got used to having his fix
2007-03-06 07:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~ThE OnE AnD OnLy PuTiE~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-03-06 07:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It happned to me a few times...
2007-03-06 07:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by RetroBunny69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it's possible, but it doesn't seem likely to me.
2007-03-06 07:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is possible.
2007-03-06 07:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooooooooooooooooooo it is not
2007-03-06 07:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by hagar a 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋