help!! what do i do??/?

Question

so this kid relle seems to like me and i sorta like him back, and so i walk around skool with him, he likes to try to tickle me and hold my hand. all my friends say i should stay away from him becuase he is gunna rape me. but idk i think it could be true but hes been soo nice to me. what should i do tel him to leave me alone or what???? help please

Answer 1

Rape is serious.
How did your friends decide that he's going to rape you? Did he tell someone this?
Boys tickle and hold hands when they like someone. Be careful, and if something bad starts to happen, or you think it might, get away and let someone know!

Answer 2

Just because a boy flirts with you and tries to hold your hand doesn't mean he is going to rape you. Your friends should probably back off and let you make your own decision about him. Friends tend to over exaggerate and say things that aren't true when jealousy is a factor. Have you given thought to the possibility that your friends may like the guy themselves? And if not, do you have any evidence to support that he has raped someone before? If I were you, I wouldn't let my friends dictate which guy I date. You can't live to please someone else. You are the only one that you will HAVE to live with every day for the rest of your life. So live for you, and no one else. If you like the boy, go for it. Decide for yourself. You only get one chance. So, live like you are dying, love like you will never love again, and go through each day like there's no tomorrow.

Answer 3

Ask him in person about the rumors like is it true that your a rapist. If he is really nice to you most likely rumors aren't true. He is probably a good guy but before you just tell him to leave you a lone get to know him better. Hang out with him more out of school go to movies and stuff and if he seems like the kinda guy that isn't like that well then maybe it could work out.

Answer 4

Rape you? Are you sure you're friends aren't just trying to scare you? If you like him, go on double dates or hang out at both of houses but not alone until you feel he's okay. Guys like to flirt, but in no way does that mean he's going to rape you (but it's also NOT impossible.) Just be careful. How old are you anyways?

Answer 5

do u know how ridiculous u sound, a boy trys to hold your hand in school and u wanna run away cause u think hes gonna rape you. a bit on the paranoid side r we? maybe u watch the news to much or have parents like the woman from waterboy " boys are the devil" get real u sound so dumb

Answer 6

How old are you hon? That is the very begining type of dating...holding hands, flirting, pushing and touching. Harmless stuff, or at least it should be.
Why would you think rape? Don't present him with the oppurtunity and don't ever hang with someone who might do that anyway.
He just likes you. Talk to your parents or a grown up you trust.

Answer 7

JUST TAKE THE TIME OUT 2 SIT AND TALK 2 HIM.sorry! um.when u guys talk pay attention 2 how much attention he pays 2 u.see if he actually takes the time ouyt 2 listen 2 u and what u have 2 say.if the root or the base of all his subjects or questions is about sexy or sexually offense 2 u then drop him just like that and don't take any excuses because it's just a trick. trust me i've fallen 2 many times!!


REAL TALK

Answer 8

y would people think he is goin to rape u has he done that before if he has then stay clear of him but otherwise just enjoy the niceness bc there arent that many nice guys out there

Answer 9

There is an element of truth in what people say, if you are not sure about him, always stay with him in a public place, never be alone with him.

Answer 10

is there any stories about him raping anyone? if so STAY away from him. if there is no proof of him being this way say with him BUT be cautious