what am i going to do?

Question

i went to a party and got drunk and so did this girl and i ended up ******* and and cumming inside her 4 times that night and then i did the same with one other girl and i think they maybe pregnant what should i do?

Answer 1

Well, you are in quite the mess! I'd say if you don't have a job or two that you better get them. Get ready to step up to the plate and be a man who will take care of his children. You may want to do some praying that neither of them are pregnant!!

If either of these girls are pregnant, after the baby or babies are born insist on a paternity test to really be sure they are yours. It is always a good idea, just to be sure that you have not been set up to take the fall for what another man may have done.

I'm not saying that any one is trying to or is going to set you up but there is a lot of evil in this world, and you can not truly trust every one to be totally honest. People will go to great lengths to be able to make a bad situation easier for them self.

So you may want to start working and saving money for the possibility that your going to become a father x two.

You need to demand paternity tests are done as soon as the baby/babies are born. Make sure it is done before your name is placed on the birth certificate. Pay for the test your self to make sure they get done. If both girls end up pregnant, you will need to do this x two.

If I were you I would stay away from parties you are in enough trouble as it is. Obviously you can not handle acohol and you don't act responsibly as a man. You didn't take precautions and were reckless about how you handle your business. Now you may have to grow up really fast, this you did to your self. It isn't the end of the world though, it just means that you need to grow up and do the right thing by all concerned.

Remember:
Paying child support isn't a punishment for what you did, it is your way of holding up your end and taking responsibility for helping bring children into this world.

Remember to insist on the tests. Take care of your babies if and when they are born. When you act like a man and impregnate girls you must own what you did. A moment of pleasure can bring a life time of obligations of which you may not be ready for. Face what you did and take responsiblilty for your own actions of having unprotected sex, these girls deserve to know that you will be a man and help take care of of the babies you helped create. Both of these girls need to know that you will step up and be a man and help them, let them know that they are not all alone in this. If you think your scared, try being in their shoes!! Good luck to all of you. My prayers are certainly with you all. God Bless!

Answer 2

If they are then you will have to be responsible for your actions. Get the necessary paternity tests done when the time is appropriate. It takes two to tangle so the women bear some of the responsibility also. Get yourself tested for STDs, you do not know if they were clean or not. They do not know if you were either. You acted very irresponsible. Now you must face the consequences of your actions and be a man. You all will have to discuss what you are going to do, when you find out if the women are pregnant, if it is your babies. Discuss if you are going to keep the babies, there are the alternatives and how you all are going to see about taking care of them if you do keep them.
Wow, if you are still a kid or in your 20s you have just about ruined your lives. It is still possible to have a good future, you will just have to work harder that is all.

Answer 3

WEAR CONDOMS! Hello- do you want to catch something?! You're just asking for it! And please find out if those girls are pregnant, have them take a test! And if they are- take care of your kids!!! Just make sure they are YOUR kids...if you don't personally know these girls... then who knows what they're up to.

Answer 4

First of all get tested for any STD's that you may have contracted. and then take care of your responsibilites!!

Answer 5

Get a very good attorney.