My ex and I broke up 4 month ago. We were together for an year and few month. We were in contact briefly on and off. We started to see each other again for a month now. Were not commited yet because we are taking things slow. We went out few times and we were intimate too. He just got into the police academy now so we haven't been talking for few days now. Therefore, i'm feeling sad because of it. I feel like we wont talk/see each other anymore. Although, he said he would. I understand that he is busy and all and I will accept that.
I don't know why I feel this way. Am i jumping into conclusion? I don't feel too good. I spoke to my friends about this and they say don't worry and see how things go from now.
Should i just stop this all or continue? I am starting to have strong feelings for him again. =(
need help!!!
2007-03-06 06:55:22 · 9 answers · asked by Andrea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My experience...all cops are cheaters or beaters. Move on.
2007-03-06 06:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by Laneymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Your feelings are your feelings . Taking things slow is a good sign but being intimate with him I would have waited a bit before doing that until you knew for sure where it would lead .
While he is away at the academy , why dont you do something for yourself to take your mind off of what he is doing . Only time will tell what the future may hold for you and your friend .
I wish you the best of Luck in life and love
C
2007-03-06 15:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I would have to vote to stop. It may seem that it'd depend on WHY you two broke up the 1st time, but really, what matters now is what's going on NOW.
I understand it's extremely difficult, esp. with the feelings you had/have for him. But do your heart a favour and let it go.
I'm sorry to hear you're going thru this. But best of luck :)
2007-03-06 15:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by chrissy x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man!!!!!!!!!!! Sweetie I don't envy you. All I can tell you is to create strength within yourself. Don't let him be your be all and all. Start things for yourself. Go back to school, take dancing classes, pottery classes, or something that will give you pride in yourself. Expect nothing and you won't be disappointed. He is taking things slow..... if you don't like it, let him go.
2007-03-06 15:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by lbacig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take things one day at a time. Do what's right for you and be supportive of him. That's really about all you can do.
2007-03-06 15:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Glass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you that you are probably living in the past. you think that your relationship will be like it was before but you know this is not true. stop trying to relive the past. if you dont feel comfortable with him dont waste your time. i know you probably had a lot of happy moments together but dont try to relive the past............
2007-03-06 14:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by Classic Beauty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I would stop it and just enjoy life,, save some money,, go see Europe
2007-03-06 14:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you tak with him have an honest conversation with him. take it easy. i know everyone hates the waiting game but sometimes you msut. take it easy hun!
2007-03-06 15:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by sarah t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop it and just enjoy life.
2007-03-06 14:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by page starshiine.™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋